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Title: Do you believe in true love/love at first sight/fate?
Post by: Nyoko on April 09 2005, 12:16 pm
-^^- Inspired by Endoh's sig. lol.... Personally, I do, but I'm just a hopeless romantic....
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Post by: Ralea on April 09 2005, 12:42 pm
Yeah. You don't have to look for the person, love comes naturally.
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Post by: monkey on April 09 2005, 12:46 pm
I'm one of those Hopeless romantics too, and yea i have to say True Love is real. and i'm certain i've found my true love already. (maybe i'm just lucky) and i just Love her sooo much i can't explain it in words...
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Post by: Ralea on April 09 2005, 01:06 pm
Lucky you! I haven't fallen in love yet, even a small crush!
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Post by: D.J.P on April 09 2005, 01:07 pm
same, but oh well, it will happen one day :)
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Post by: monkey on April 09 2005, 01:07 pm
=^_^= i could just talk to her all day and night if i could ... *romantic sigh*
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Post by: Tune on April 09 2005, 01:12 pm
i'm quite bleak when it come to this sorta thing...maybe coz i'm too unsocialable ~heh~ but i believe that there is some1 in this whole wide world out there who's your other half, ahh, thats what i believe~~lala~
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Post by: Ralea on April 09 2005, 01:24 pm
"Too many billion people,
running around the planet
What is the chance in heaven
that you'd find your way to me?"

I love that song.....
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Post by: ashleygurl on April 09 2005, 02:58 pm
I believe in true love rather...love at first sight are usually crush....and infatuation nothing more than that.
If its true love, it would be formed out of maturity,honesty and strong bonding...and true love forms the fate between two person...and therefore i partly believe in fate too....like yea its amazing how you can find a person out of so many ppl in the world... :love4:
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Post by: monkey on April 09 2005, 03:00 pm
very good way of putting it ashleygurl :D

"Too many billion people,
running around the planet
What is the chance in heaven
that you'd find your way to me?"

I love that song.....

whats tha name and title of the song ?
me wanna download it ^_^
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Post by: lumizstar on April 09 2005, 03:45 pm
I agree on True love too...without True Love...this world will be full of lies....please i think a mutual relationship is always healthy than crushes.
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Post by: pinklacus on April 09 2005, 05:20 pm
Yes I believe in love at first sight. There's this saying which i watched from tv dramas. Some couples fall in love at first sight because they were lovers from their previous lives.
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Post by: Tune on April 09 2005, 05:28 pm
ooo...the channel u drama of the 1000 yr thingy and the business world confilct?..i nvr saw that xcept on advertisment, but whats ment to be will be, my belief~~
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Post by: pinklacus on April 09 2005, 05:48 pm
I didn't watch that drama. I got the saying from a taiwanese drama called scent of love (lian xiang). The drama is a jointly produced by taiwan and korea.

I wonder where is my other half?
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Post by: Tune on April 09 2005, 05:49 pm
somewhere in this world definatly~ :)

you saw turn left turn right?...i was crying and laughing thruout....too funny, i thought i'll die fr laughter~~
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Post by: pinklacus on April 09 2005, 05:55 pm
Ya i watched that. Remember the scene when both of them received the photos. I'll be angry and sad at how fate plays with me.
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Post by: D.J.P on April 09 2005, 05:55 pm
please try to stay on topic.

I know its a difficult thing to do, but lets all attempt it :D
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Post by: pinklacus on April 09 2005, 05:58 pm
:silent: ok.
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Post by: Tune on April 09 2005, 06:00 pm
okie dokie, turn right turn left is a love story where fate is juz plying hard to get but it sure is love at first sight for the main characters :)
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Post by: cblossom on April 10 2005, 03:24 am
I som-what do believe in love at first sight because if u just see some 1 on the sidewalk u dont just fall in luv  :love4:with them. Do u? :dontknow:
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 04:11 am
cblossom i don't think thats what they mean by love at first sight, they mean it as in like an encounter. like the first time you see them walk towards you and talk to you, you get that feeling of "this is the one" and you basicly don't know what to do or say
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Post by: cblossom on April 10 2005, 04:13 am
o I know I was just joking around I sort of believe in luv at first sight.  :love4:
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Post by: ashleygurl on April 10 2005, 12:05 pm
cblossom i don't think thats what they mean by love at first sight, they mean it as in like an encounter. like the first time you see them walk towards you and talk to you, you get that feeling of "this is the one" and you basicly don't know what to do or say

I think there's a possibility to like a person at first sight. But hard. You usually see them in TV Dramas, well yea those on TV are destined to be together. But in reality, I think its hard and mostly first sights are major crushes or crushes that a person would soon forgot. Unless, u have a fate for that person or u urself making up chances to meet he/she back and think its dang hard.
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 12:10 pm
hwo about you have a major crush at first sight, confess yoru love with them, you go out for a few weeks, split up,. go seperate ways and then meet up by accident again like 5 or 6 years later and fall in love all over again ?
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Post by: Li_shaoran on April 10 2005, 12:13 pm
I dont think love is just something that comes up and punches you in the stomach

i.e Sakura and syaoran didnt get along so well at first but they grew to love each other!

But the very first time I saw a hamburger I almost jumped it  :hehe:
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 12:14 pm
ah i agree with you there.. but i'd say a Cheeseburger ^_^
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Post by: Nyoko on April 10 2005, 12:15 pm
awwww! such a kawaii thought! *shojo bubbles zoom around me as i stare stary eyed at nothing* -^^-

Actually I have and still am experiencing love at first sight... -^^-
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Post by: Li_shaoran on April 10 2005, 12:16 pm
ah i agree with you there.. but i'd say a Cheeseburger ^_^

ah yes cheese *steals and hordes all the cheese*

but NO onions
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 12:25 pm
LOL, well i ALSO agree. No onions... just the great CheeseBurger with the usual stuff inside ^_^
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Post by: lumizstar on April 10 2005, 03:26 pm
wa..get back on topic ppl!! XD even though u guys are funny...but how can a love discussion turn to one about burgers.... :) Maybe we should talk about other certain types of love in here rather than only the ones to be discussed.
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 10:12 pm
how about LUST ?
thats widely mistaked for love
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Post by: Tune on April 10 2005, 10:14 pm
yeaps~1 sided love ::nods::
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Post by: monkey on April 10 2005, 10:15 pm
aww, i feel really bad for one sided love, cos you love someone so dearly and you'll never get those feelings in return ;__;
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Post by: Tune on April 10 2005, 10:24 pm
not destined but i'm sure theres some1 for the 1 in the 1 sided love~ :)
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Post by: Espo on April 11 2005, 04:20 am
i believe in love at first sight.. a little. well, i like to get to know someone better... if i like them. well. there you go. it works a bit.. kind of like fate. know i sound wierd... >___< but anyways, i'm getting somewhere.. i'm just too scared of rejection to tell him.......* cries *
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Post by: Airi on April 11 2005, 04:55 am
No I don't believe in love at first sight, I mean when you see the person that you like, you just like how they look, you can't love someone you don't know. If falling in love was like that, then wouldn't everyone get disappointed? There's more than meets the eye. Sometimes someone can look beautiful or cute, but their personality may not be what you like. I believe in "like at first sight" and then get to know the person's better and understanding about them before loving. Yes I do believe in true love, everyone will find their true love one day and some may have found it. Although, I don't have one, but I'll keep searching, besides the time I have now is for my family and friends ^^. Time will lead me to him one day ^_^.
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Post by: Espo on April 11 2005, 04:59 am
Excellant annilises... [sp?]
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Post by: monkey on April 11 2005, 05:28 am
hm, intresting but i still don't see it happening Airi, nice to see that you counter the view tho ^^
even tho i'm a firm believer in love at first sight... or should i say encounter, so i think love at first sight would be your first talking together so that immediatly counters your point ^^
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Post by: Espo on April 11 2005, 06:49 am
I think love at first sight is your like someone... but you have to get to know them first.
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Post by: Okamirei on April 11 2005, 07:40 am
*nods* what if that person looked good, but was actually a murderer^^?
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Post by: Airi on April 11 2005, 07:41 am
Yes that would be scary O.o
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Post by: Espo on April 11 2005, 07:50 am
You wouldn't talk to them anymore.. and run away. lols.
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Post by: Okamirei on April 11 2005, 07:55 am
or beat them up^^
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Post by: Espo on April 11 2005, 08:04 am
I wouldn't.. i'd run away.... ahhh.......

*er hem*

but i just like to be friends with them. so they won't hate me if i tell them.
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Post by: Kasumi on April 11 2005, 01:22 pm
I believe... that it exists and i doesn't... ^^U

It exists because sometimes you happen to have the luck to meet somenone and just BANG! feel somthing running all over you and feel sonthing that tells you that that is the person you want to share the rest of your life with...

But I also believe that a good relationship, and those that are meant to last, are based in knowledge, confidence, trust and a good friendship. You have to be friends with your partner before he/she becomes your couple... Love is friendships woderful next step ^^

So... maybe you met someone and BANG! felt the love... but meet him/her better before you go all mushy xD
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Post by: Bao_Nhia_Yang on April 11 2005, 01:46 pm
i can say that i do believe in love at first site.. but i'm not guaranteed that it'll work out..  because it's not like you just see that person and know that that person's the ONE already.. unless you go on those shows on tv...  where you married out of nowhere...

and as for fate... fate is always there.. it's true no matter what...  i know there's one person for each of us...  just have to find that person..

be patient and wait for that person to come! :)
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Post by: Espo on April 12 2005, 01:32 am
So... maybe you met someone and BANG! felt the love... but meet him/her better before you go all mushy xD

My point exactly.
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Post by: monkey on April 12 2005, 04:09 am
It exists because sometimes you happen to have the luck to meet somenone and just BANG!

So... maybe you met someone and BANG!

do you really shoot people that often ? XD

ehe.. srry i just had to say it ..lol
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Post by: Espo on April 12 2005, 06:06 am
that's cruel to Kasumi...
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Post by: monkey on April 12 2005, 06:08 am
its such an obvious play on words !!
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Post by: Espo on April 12 2005, 06:12 am
Still. You've ruined Kasumi's point.... which was very good.
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Post by: Kasumi on April 12 2005, 07:44 am
Arigato for worrying about me, Espo-chan ^^ don't worry, it found it funny... xD I couldn't find any better sound-word to use ^o^
And Bao Nhia Yang's post made me think... yes I do believe there's someone out there for everyone... as hard as that is to believe... but there IS ^^ we just have to be patient and don't rush it ^_~

Kisses
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Post by: monkey on April 12 2005, 08:27 am
*nods* i agree, and dun be so high strung espo
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Post by: Li_shaoran on April 12 2005, 08:30 am
my first year of HS i met a girl that for a while I just liked as a friend but as I got to know her my feelings grew.....were still really good friends but i just cant build up the courage to tell her cause i dont wanna ruin what we've got.....what a predicament X_X
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Post by: lika-chi on April 12 2005, 08:45 am
hmm i'm not gonna bother reading the last 3 pages.. HAHA!! too lazy..

well decided to write a post here.. if i haven't already.. don't remember..

well i believe in all the above.. XD rn't i a great believer.. LOLZ!! i really believe in true love and fate but love at first sight isn't all that big on me... i mean like i believe that it can and will happen to some people

it's just that it won't happen to a lot of people. i believe that everyone met because of fate.. i believe that i came to this forum and met all these great people because of fate.. XD fate is a great thing.. XD true love.. i believe that people will experience true love. although i want to and hope to find it.. i haven't seen it b4 but i'm pretty sure i will see it in some people.
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Post by: Nyoko on April 12 2005, 09:50 pm
my first year of HS i met a girl that for a while I just liked as a friend but as I got to know her my feelings grew.....were still really good friends but i just cant build up the courage to tell her cause i dont wanna ruin what we've got.....what a predicament X_X
Wow... hmmm..... I wish I could help you there, but I really don't know what to say. -^^- good luck!
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Post by: Harumi on April 13 2005, 02:58 am
Well to answer the question of the topic, I believe in love. Fate I'm not sure...but I believe  in love at first sight...and love at no sight. I've had that *blushes* But see Crushes and things like that are ok but I think the loves that you have before the one true love you find are just ways to prepare you and get you ready for the one true love. I mean sure you'll say that you love this person or that person but when it's real real love, how are you supposed to know? ya know. I mean tis very hard to tell cause some people think that they are in true love and stuff and then they will break up a week later. I dunno but anyways I know for sure that I'm in true love=^^= and I know that I'm gonna go weak in the knee's when I meet my bf for the first time==^^==
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Post by: monkey on April 14 2005, 10:16 am
hehe ^_^ i know i can't wait, i hope i don't make you faint too many times ^^;;
*crosses calander off* hm.. counting the days ^_^
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Post by: Little Wolf on April 14 2005, 11:05 am
I believe in true love and fate but not in love at first sight. It's just really impossible because if you loved someone just by seeing her then it isn't love. You have to know the person very well first before you can say you do love her. Other than that, it's just physical attraction.

Look at S+S, from rivals to friends to... :inlove:
Yet, I know they were destined to be together. They're soulmates and that's fate. :keke:
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Post by: Nyoko on April 14 2005, 11:15 am
-^^- I really think that most people will be against the whole "Love at First Sight" thing until they experiance it. It isn't really like you see the person and automaticly are in love. It is like the first time you meet that person you get a bit light-headed and you get shivers, so it is like a sign, and after you find out that you are in love, you kinda can say that you felt it from the start. It is hard to explain, but I have experianced it.
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 15 2005, 04:13 am
I think I belive in it....I saw a Korean boy when he first transferred to my class, and I instantly fell in love. But he went back to Korea last year, without me ever telling him my feelings.
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Post by: monkey on April 15 2005, 04:17 am
aw,

that is unless you confuse Infactuation with Love.

i found something that sounds pretty well for the differences

Infatuation is fleeting desire -- one set of glands calling to another. It is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about the relationship that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. It is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust and it makes him even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before.
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 15 2005, 04:20 am
Definitely loved him....he made me feel so confident, even though he hardly spoke a word. And we ended up exchanging presents at Christmas too....he didn't do that with anyone else....
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Post by: Little Wolf on April 15 2005, 04:25 am
aww.... :)

and nice post, VexNet, you can be a good psychologist.  :keke:
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Post by: monkey on April 15 2005, 04:25 am
i love psychology ^_^
its a pretty intresting article
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Post by: Little Wolf on April 15 2005, 04:32 am
Me too. I like to understand why people think the way they think. :D

but that's not the topic of this thread... :keke:
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Post by: monkey on April 15 2005, 05:06 am
how about, the psychology of love ?
is it a real heart-felt feeling of adoration or is it a basic instinct only to mate to further the species
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Post by: Fai on April 16 2005, 01:10 pm
Yes I do believe at love at first sight. It's like meeting you're match made in heaven.
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Post by: Mirror on April 16 2005, 01:39 pm
Infatuation at first sight?  Yes.  Love?  No.   Love is too complex for that sort of thing.  As for Fate, no.  And true love...  I've yet to hear a definition of it, so who knows?
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Post by: ashleygurl on April 29 2005, 09:25 pm
The definition of True Love...actually no one can truly say that they could define or understand it.....
Some people said that True Love is something you can come across more than once in a lifetime...but to me, I think its ONLY ONCE for a lifetime. True Love is when you felt that you can sacrifice your life, your everything for that very important person in your life.
Come to think of it seriously, of people who are in infatuation/love at first sight/ crush/ in love, who can truly promise that they would die for the other person....? Therefore, I think the definition of True Love might be somewhat like that. But of course, you have to go through crushes, and other types of love experiences etc....before you really understand who is meant for you.
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Post by: D.J.P on April 29 2005, 09:28 pm
Well put ashelygurl.

(off topic - you might try spacing out your post next time, so its a little easier to read)
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Post by: ashleygurl on April 29 2005, 09:33 pm
opps sorrie about it.

And thanks for the compliment :XD:

(I guess I'm off-topic) So any other 'love' questions?
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Post by: Nyoko on April 29 2005, 09:46 pm
I am in love with someone but to them we are just friends... what should I do?
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Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 06:32 am
I am in love with someone but to them we are just friends... what should I do?
well, i think you have only 2 choices... one, you can try to tell the person.. or two, keep the matter to yourself for the fear of losing a good friend (if thing turns out badly)..

personally, i believe in true love and fate.. no matter how long both of us have been friends or where we are.. if both of us are fated to be together, we will be together.. no matter what happen..  and that will be my one true love..

as for love at first sight = lust
*lol*
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 30 2005, 06:50 am
love at first sight = lust  ?!

No way! It may sound sappy, but when you look at some people, you just know that they're the right person for you! Looks may be a large part of the first glance, but you can normally see whether they look kind, nice, or sensitive....

Just like my Korean boy (sigh) he had the nicest little shy smile....

Ba dum! Ba dum! My heart skipped a beat and I was lost!
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Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 08:13 am
*lol*
hmm.. probably you are right.. when you look at certain people, you know that he/she is the one.. *sighz* but this has not happened on me yet..
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Post by: monkey on April 30 2005, 08:16 am
^^.. i love how my heart skips a beat when i'm with my gf, its The Best feeling i could of ever even think of having
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 30 2005, 08:18 am
Awww! Sweet! For a Miroku pervert, you have a heart of gold, VexNet!
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Post by: monkey on April 30 2005, 08:20 am
:D YUP, i'm still a romantic at heart *nods*
i would really love to take her to a fancy restuaraunt.. but .. uhm.. i'm broke >.>
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Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 08:45 am
well Vexnet.. you got to start saving!
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Post by: monkey on April 30 2005, 08:52 am
:keke: i know but its also the thought that counts !!
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 30 2005, 08:54 am
Yeah...although a lot of people just see it as an excuse to not bother.

*lousy slimeball of a....grumble, moan*
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Post by: monkey on April 30 2005, 09:06 am
LOL, but some people actually mean it, i mean if i couldn't afford something, i'd spend time Making something ^^ or i'd try and draw a picture ^_^
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Post by: Ruby Chan on April 30 2005, 09:08 am
Sweet!
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Post by: Syaokura on April 30 2005, 11:15 am
No, I don't really believe in love at first sight.  ^^; Why? Just because I spotted a really cute guy for the first time, it doesn't mean I'll fall in love with him right away. If you think you love someone when you spotted him/her for the first time, you probably had a crush. I dunno. Just my opinion.
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Post by: cardcaptor519 on May 13 2005, 12:08 pm
toally! i so believe in love at the first sight!
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Post by: AiKo on May 13 2005, 12:22 pm
True love... yes~! :okay: but love at first sight... nah~ Attraction yes but not love
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Post by: monkey on May 14 2005, 09:29 am
a lot of time true loves blossoms from friendship or bestfriends
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Post by: Ruby Chan on May 14 2005, 06:29 pm
Yep. That happens. A girl at my school has just started going out with one of her best male friends....they get on so well, if they ever did break up, I think they'd still be able to reamin friends.
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Post by: wisteria on May 14 2005, 08:02 pm
personally feel that once break up it is hard to remain as friend even it is very good friends at start. It like a plate being mashed and stick back it still have cracks. both of them will still have gaps between.

Love at first sight .....yes more like a flush to me. but it is short once heat wave gets over it is like it never exist before.  (it applys to me)

True love: never meet before. so can't say much.

To me none love you is ok, as long as u love yourself. just like this lyric: ai qing jiu xiang duo chi the hong mei kui, deng dai ji hui ai bu ai wu shuo wei. (han yu pin yin)
english version? can someone do it? My english is limited. hehehe
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Post by: monkey on May 14 2005, 11:09 pm
personally i think "to love yourself" is a bit too egotistical. i mean i personally can't stand the way i look but i try to make the most of it. i hate how i talk and walk and how i do t hings. i hate my line of thought. and theres no changing who i am cos i am me. but to just be happy  that you are you and thats what makes you unique however. thats what i can live with :keke:
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Post by: bLuetopaz on May 15 2005, 06:20 am
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To me none love you is ok, as long as u love yourself. just like this lyric: ai qing jiu xiang duo chi the hong mei kui, deng dai ji hui ai bu ai wu shuo wei. (han yu pin yin)
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erm.. is it possible to put the pin yin beside the word? like ai(4) qing(2) = love
i've got a problem with duo chi (???)
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Post by: wisteria on May 15 2005, 11:31 am
Sorry my ping yin not very strong. Tendency if i put I wil definitely make  more mistakes to be make. duo chi = thorns of the rose, in this case
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Post by: wisteria on May 15 2005, 11:43 am
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i personally can't stand the way i look but i try to make the most of it. i hate how i talk and walk and how i do t hings. i hate my line of thought. and theres no changing who i am cos i am me.

I was once like this before or should say sometimes now still have this thinking. Think of another side of you, you will definitely feels better of yourself and more confidence when you do things. I have this kind of thinking as above is because i lack of confidence of myself and people remark and critism of me especially classmates. feeling inferior about myself.

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to just be happy  that you are you and thats what makes you unique

I definitely agreed :lol:
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Post by: bLuetopaz on May 16 2005, 04:57 am
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ai qing jiu xiang duo chi the hong mei kui, deng dai ji hui ai bu ai wu shuo wei. (han yu pin yin)
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love is just like a rose with many thorns, waiting for a chance, to love or not to love, it doesnt matter...

hopefully i translate it the way it should be..
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Post by: Dark_Card on May 19 2005, 12:17 pm
sorry I don't. I just can't believe that theres only one person I could be happy with and if I don't find him, oh well too bad for me. also no to the first sight.
as cynical as I sound I'm really romantic!
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Post by: looney on May 20 2005, 10:26 am
There's this quote My friend tells me "If love is blind then why do people believe in love at first sight" Which I believe is beautiful. I believe in soulmates and desteny. Everything happens for a reason. Everyone has another half that help them feel complete. Some find them some don't But that's ok Because you will always find someone you care for with all your heart, even if he's/she is not Mr. Right
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Post by: monkey on May 20 2005, 11:34 am
There's this quote My friend tells me "If love is blind then why do people believe in love at first sight" Which I believe is beautiful. I believe in soulmates and desteny. Everything happens for a reason. Everyone has another half that help them feel complete. Some find them some don't But that's ok Because you will always find someone you care for with all your heart, even if he's/she is not Mr. Right

thats a pretty nice way of putting it too, theres lots of ways to tal about love and lots are mean or cruel but theres also lots that are sensitive, romantic, truthfull, realistic and just seem right :keke: if you understand what i said o.O
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sight/fate?
Post by: looney on May 20 2005, 12:42 pm
Love at first sight can occur, just like fate. they are both entwined together, and in one time or another they become true love
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Post by: looney on May 30 2005, 08:29 am
then there's this saying from 16 candles.
" that's why they call them crushes, if they were easy they'd call them something else"
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Post by: Shadeslayer on July 19 2005, 01:50 pm
Hmmm... Nope. I definately don't believe in Fate for my life is my own and I shall control it in whichever way I please. As for love....Its a bond stronger than anything else on this Earth, its taller than the highest mountain and deeper than the widest ocean. Love at first sight is usually just a crush, you get over it in time.
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Post by: Blaze on July 21 2005, 11:48 pm
i belive in love at first sight. and no i dont think if u just see a person in the side walk u fall in love
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Post by: warauKuro-rin on July 23 2005, 03:25 am
I don't believe it. I think love takes time and patience, but I wouldn't know! lol Anyway...  you could just say that I do sometimes believe it and don't others. ^_-
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Post by: Moon on July 23 2005, 01:09 pm
I don't know. The most I've had is a crush, but it.. didn't go over so well. When I saw my crush for the first time, I wasn't head-over heels in love or anything...just interested, really. I'd watch him while going from class to class if ever given the chance. Eventually I wanted to get to know him and that brought me to where at a back-to-school dance I introudced myself ( which at the time was.. very nerve racking. xx; ).. but, like I said, it didn't go over well because it was kinda a waste of my emotions. I may have liked him, but he didn't like me back..
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sight/fate?
Post by: Ruby Chan on July 26 2005, 09:01 pm
I've said what I think about love, but fate? Hmmmm.....

I think we have a certain amount of destiny and fated events, but overall, we can influence our future. To quote X...."The future is still undecided, right?"
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Post by: Hori on July 26 2005, 09:11 pm
Yer I do .. Can say that I will never ever think otherwise ...

I think that we all have a set destination ... We just choose how to get there ^______^
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sigh
Post by: Alexiel on July 27 2005, 01:35 am
I'll just say 50/50 belief in such. Too tired to type out my opinion at the moment. Lol
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sight/fate?
Post by: Sayora Chan on August 09 2005, 07:21 am
Love at first sight does not happen.  Long term interest may happen, but not love.  Nothing is fated to happen, except in anime.   :wink:
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sight/fate?
Post by: KuroPuppy on September 07 2005, 05:46 am
I'm half and half on both topics. Love at first site could happen or not. and fate is kind of a funny topic to think on so I just kind of let life take me like a leaf in the wind.
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Post by: Princess Kakurine on September 07 2005, 12:36 pm
i believe in true love...
I already felt that but, actually i can't that feeling...
maybe its a special feeling that makes you happy, that you loved and to be loved by someone...
*blush*
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Post by: xOLight_AngelOx on September 07 2005, 12:47 pm
all i had was a crush i don't know what "love" feels like, but i do belive in love at first sight
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Post by: Strawberry on September 08 2005, 04:49 am
Hmmm, not really because you got to get to know the person first before you fall in love.
I never had love at first sight, though I do fall in love with guys, that was just by knowing them well and looking at his personality.
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Post by: babypigggy on October 27 2005, 10:25 am
no...or maybe..yes? i dont knowww
i never wanna find out cause pain is too much
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Post by: Cherry-chan on October 27 2005, 10:41 am
hmmm... i don't really believe in it because I've had a billion crushes on guys i didn't even know, just looked at, then later i realize i was being foolish.
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Post by: monkey on October 27 2005, 10:41 am
Pain is something we as humans have to endure.
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Post by: Cherry-chan on October 27 2005, 10:45 am
Exactly. Also, we learn from pain. We learn about what hurts us, and how we can improve or stay away from it.
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Post by: monkey on October 27 2005, 10:50 am
shame i fear rejection so much, I just can't bring up the nerve to speak to girls i like, and if i do then it would only be online and even then i find it hard to tell them i like them ^^;
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Post by: Cherry-chan on October 27 2005, 10:54 am
Whoa VexNet I didn't realize that was you until I looked at your profile! Seems like everyone is changing their names... haha including me :tongue3:

Yeah, I know, it's hard, but it's embarassing because I actually have a crush on someone over the internet I haven't even met... how stupid and foolish of me *runs away*
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Post by: monkey on October 27 2005, 11:10 am
Whoa VexNet I didn't realize that was you until I looked at your profile! Seems like everyone is changing their names... haha including me :tongue3:

Yeah, I know, it's hard, but it's embarassing because I actually have a crush on someone over the internet I haven't even met... how stupid and foolish of me *runs away*
aww!! Thats not foolish! i had a relationship like it XD HAHA
It didn't work out for me (cos my ex was kinda ****** ^^;;)
But I have a crush on a girl Online too.. and i'm still too embarrased to tell her ^^;;

and my name... its not permanent, I'll probably revert back to VexNet at a later date.. i just feel ashamed at the moment...
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Post by: Light_Card on October 27 2005, 11:14 am
I don't belive in love at first sight but for some people i think that they have soulmates but i'm not sure if i have one.
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Post by: Cherry-chan on October 27 2005, 11:19 am
o.O Ashamed? Why?

It's funny I write romantic fics and I have no romantic life whatsoever :P
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Post by: monkey on October 27 2005, 11:22 am
romantic fics? sounds good. romance is one of the best parts of life
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Post by: Cherry-chan on October 27 2005, 11:25 am
lol, er, or should I say, romantic CCS fanfics? lol!
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Post by: Tooya_Mizuki on October 28 2005, 03:45 pm
I do remember a girl way back on my highschool days, I fell in love at first sight but I was too shy back then and I ended up graduating without being able to tell her my true feelings, I still regret not having told my true feelings up to this day, o well life goes on.
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Post by: rukia on November 11 2005, 02:17 am
Lucky you! I haven't fallen in love yet, even a small crush!
me too but someone will come along...sooner or later...and i can say i believe in true love but maybe not at first sight...i mean how do you know what they're like if you've just SEEN them
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Post by: CV3 on January 20 2006, 09:13 am
well for me not really....
but for others like my friends i think its true
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Post by: Shiunu on January 20 2006, 10:40 am
Yes I do. I think it's just so romantic. *sigh* I think i'm in love with this boy right now. lol. Well not litterly. But like whenever I see him my heart starts beating really fast. I've had a crush on him for like ever!  :lol:
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Post by: MichelleSV on January 26 2006, 02:16 pm
Through out my whole life i have only liked 3 people...I believe in true love but i dispise love...i know u might think i am too young to say this but i have been through alot with love and i don't like what it has done....so yeah...my point is i believe in love i just don't like it
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Post by: Wolf Blossom on February 09 2006, 06:29 am
Same here MichelleSV i agree with you but i don't dispise it i just don't like it....People get hurt I've seen my Friend get hurt i felt so sorry for her she didn't eat for 5 days....i don't want that to happen to me...
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Post by: wishingstarx on April 03 2006, 06:53 am
^_^ yep, You don't look for it...Love comes naturally
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Post by: minty on April 18 2006, 06:00 am
I think I believe in the notion of love at first sight. It's so romantic!! *sigh*. But what does love at first fate mean??
Title: Re: Do you believe in true love/love at first sigh
Post by: ~Namine~ on May 02 2006, 02:08 am
I'd have to say i do believe in Love at first sight, I mean some people just have that connection and they end up meeting the love of their life face to face, just b/c you dont meet your love face to face for the first time or you dont realize how much you love them, doesnt mean their not your soul mate, everyone has a different way of realizing their feelings for someone ^^
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Post by: Sailor Yue-chan on May 08 2006, 03:39 pm
i feel that love should be based on personality not looks. things like Internet reltionships, they can work. because you become friends thru the way the other acts. you dont have to worry about things like tumors, or other disformaties, or speach impediments. Internet relationships to me hold stronger than "love  at first site"
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Post by: ~Emethyst~ on May 08 2006, 03:54 pm
I'd have to say i do believe in Love at first sight, I mean some people just have that connection and they end up meeting the love of their life face to face, just b/c you dont meet your love face to face for the first time or you dont realize how much you love them, doesnt mean their not your soul mate, everyone has a different way of realizing their feelings for someone ^^

I have to say that this is very similar to my opinion ^_^
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Post by: ~Namine~ on May 08 2006, 11:22 pm
I would have to say getting to know someone through the internet is a good thing, you get to know them for who they really are and not what they look like, but dont give up on love, you go through so much when trying to find the right person, someteims you think you fall in love with someone they end up hurting you and you think your heart is broken, but your wrong at the time it feels like that, but thats just b/c you have met the one for you yet, once you meet that person they wont ever break your heart, never hurt you, for they feel the same way you do about them, I went through a lot of relationships and I thought I was in love with these people, but then i met josh, we met online actually and got to meet face to face this weekend (wich by the way was awesome) and I've never felt more strongly for one person, its not based on sex, or looks (even though he is totally hott) its based on his personality we are able to connect on levels most people dont, we seem to follow different paths but they are parallel to eachother, its totally different with him than anyone els, we have fun with eachother, we make eachother smile, his parents are very nice people, and I believe I love him, so dont give up, you'll find the person your meant to be with one day, dont rush things just let it flow and happen the way its meant to be, their going to jump in your lap one day and that will change your life forever.
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Post by: FieryPrincess on August 15 2007, 06:58 pm
Lolz. I believe in fate and true love, but not love at first sight. :D
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Post by: Kouichi on August 16 2007, 03:00 am
^ I'm with you  theres Fate and true love but I've never seen True love at first sight