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Title: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 29 2005, 01:34 am
just curious..

do you have any best friends like (Sakura/Tomoyo) or (Touya/Yukito)?

for me, i am blessed with 4 very close friends.. though not as close as Sakura and Tomoyo.. but i think its good enough. :wink:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: AiKo on April 29 2005, 01:38 am
Meh too... although two only ^^; but still it's better than nothing~ plus m happy with them! M really close to my cousins though ^____^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 29 2005, 01:41 am
so you mean your best friends are actually your cousins?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: AiKo on April 29 2005, 01:43 am
sorta but i have two who are not related to me ^^;
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on April 29 2005, 02:09 am
i've never really had any friends i've even be sorta close to, the only real close friends i have are situated all around the world so i can't actually see them eye to eye... but i do have close friends online :D and i really thank them for helping me out with my life so far *nods* i'm very appreciative
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on April 29 2005, 05:13 am
Not really....my best friend is more like...well...evil.

sigh
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on April 29 2005, 05:15 am
aw sorry rube, try telling her something then
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: D.J.P on April 29 2005, 09:07 am
Topic moved to Anything Goes
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on April 29 2005, 09:55 am
I do. Some say we ARE a Sakura/Tomoyo. She belongs to the choir group and I'm rather the sporty one between the two of us. Although we have a group of friends, the two of us always stick together. :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 29 2005, 10:47 am
Not really....my best friend is more like...well...evil.

sigh
oopsy.. in that case, the person is still your best friend?

I do. Some say we ARE a Sakura/Tomoyo. She belongs to the choir group and I'm rather the sporty one between the two of us. Although we have a group of friends, the two of us always stick together. :)
hehe.. the way you describe it.. i thought so too!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 29 2005, 10:51 am
this is my fav. friendship quote:

"The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch, swing with, never say a word,
And then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation that both of you have ever had."
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: lika-chi on April 29 2005, 12:18 pm
i have a few.. but i don't trust some at times.. hehe does my mom count.. LOLZ because i tell her everything and yea.. something like a best friend i guess.. XD
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: lika-chi on April 29 2005, 01:22 pm
OOO does that mean i'm youre friend.. XD haha.. because we talk.. wait a second.. that isn't what you meant.. nevermind..

anyways.. i'm in the same boat as tune.. i'm not really sure how to tell if they're my best friend or just a friend.. well usually i just think of how close i am with them.. but there's a lot of people i'm close with but they're not considered a best friend.. but in my mind and world.. a crazy one.. LMAO!!.. i think of all those people as one of my best friends.. as long as i can talk to them and get along with them and like them.. i'll consider them as one of my best friend..

therefore i guess you can say that i consider a bunch of people on this forum as my best friends.. XD hehe.. ii don't really want to say the name or else some people will feel left out.. haha..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Sya0ran on April 29 2005, 03:05 pm
I have 3 best friends actually.  Were all very close and tell each other everything!!  Yes...even very, very private things.  lol  Well...almost everything.   :shifty:  XD  Err, we all get along but sometimes they get on my nerves.  xD  Below is a little about them...they are in no order.

1st Best Friend  -   Her name is Cori and she's a tough girl who'll beat you up if she wants to.  A total hypocrite and me and my one of my other best friends secretly hate her.  @_@;  Yeah...but at times she's cool.  I'll evaluate this stressful situaton for you guys if you actually wanna know.  I'm dying to tell someone rather than my other best friend.   :shifty:  xP

2nd Best Friend  -  Her name is Krystal and we are like practically twins.  We think alike and finish each others sentences and absolutely know what the other is thinking.  And yes, she's the other best friend who secretly hates my other best friend with me.  >>;  She's exactly like me too:  loud, sweet, nice, mean when she wants to be, always optimistic and always has a smile on her face.   :keke:

3rd Best Friend  -  His name is Jose.  He's cool but very dorky looking.  He's a complete know-it-all but still...he's great other than the fact that he had asked me out 3 months ago.   :sweatdrop:   I'm mad at him though right now so uhh..yeah.

Mhm..there.  My life is always filled with drama.  e-e;;  I love all my best friends though and all online + offline ones.   :wink:  lol.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Chizuri on April 29 2005, 05:33 pm
Hmm...this may sound weird...but I have 3 sets of 3 close friends (who I now refer to as my 'minions', since I don't usually use the word 'best' ) ^^;
I've been to three schools in the past three years and in every one I seemed to get close to a group of three people ^^; I'm still in touch with all of them though, in one way or another. But right now, I think I'm closer to the newest three... ^^

-is arrested for excessive use of the number 3-
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: AiKo on April 29 2005, 05:39 pm
minions ei~ :haha:  :hehe:  :rotfl:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Chizuri on April 29 2005, 05:41 pm
yesh...minions....,minion ^w^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: kudan on April 29 2005, 06:25 pm
The problem with me is that I often hop from one school to another every 1-2 years. Because of this, I do not have many close friends but  I have many good friends... :(
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: ashleygurl on April 29 2005, 09:02 pm
I do have some close friends.....its important to have ones that are REALLY close, like understand your feelings. Sometimes, I think the idea of 'gang' is quite bad....since you got so many in a gang,....that you sometimes just don't get to know a person in depth. but anyway, just adding a bit of my own opinions about forming gangs and friends. Gangs doesn't belong to this topic anyway.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 29 2005, 11:18 pm
I do have some close friends.....its important to have ones that are REALLY close, like understand your feelings. Sometimes, I think the idea of 'gang' is quite bad....since you got so many in a gang,....that you sometimes just don't get to know a person in depth. but anyway, just adding a bit of my own opinions about forming gangs and friends. Gangs doesn't belong to this topic anyway.

how about replacing the word 'gang' with clique?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: cblossom on April 30 2005, 12:38 am
Clique is better. :)
I have so very good friends also in a diiferent school because I switch schools in September or October .Well I have some VERY , VERY, 10x very close friends . The closes ones our us eight of us. We talk about many things but I mostly a little bit shy out of all of them but they forse me to talk and sometimes I do. Next year we are going to have teh same exploitories I think Im the only one who likes P.E. in the group Im the one who runs faster I think but my other friends are good in sports to  :keke:  They always have my back and we always have eachothers backs  :D. Thats the school that I go to now I used to go to a different school were I had allot of friends to but some of them were mean to other kids and they did "bad" things but I didnt do those things that they did. neither did some others they didnt smoke .
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 01:49 am
cblossom> may i ask why do you have to switch schools in Sept and Oct?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: LemonPing on April 30 2005, 03:29 am
i have one... we share the same birthday, knew each since we were really smal like 1++ hahaha never separated till now!!!!! not fights at all!!!!!!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 06:22 am
i have one... we share the same birthday, knew each since we were really smal like 1++ hahaha never separated till now!!!!! not fights at all!!!!!!

that is so cute!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Fai on April 30 2005, 01:04 pm
defenitly! I have 2 of them. One of them I met all the way in pre-school and we've been friend for 8 years! The other one I met in gr.4 and we are still the best of friends today.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Kitsune-chan on April 30 2005, 01:51 pm
-sigh- wish I did....I have a very lonely life, even in preschool
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Tune on April 30 2005, 07:28 pm
hmmmz....often, i cant really differentiate a good friend fr a best friend or juz a friend....then i cant really say i have a bunch of friends or anything...those are well...classmates so they are friends right? *confused* maybe coz i'm a cold fish...unless some1 speaks to me, i'd rather be left alone~ :P
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on April 30 2005, 07:46 pm
i have one... we share the same birthday, knew each since we were really smal like 1++ hahaha never separated till now!!!!! not fights at all!!!!!!

Wow, you're probably inseperable like twins!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 09:19 pm
hmmmz....often, i cant really differentiate a good friend fr a best friend or juz a friend....then i cant really say i have a bunch of friends or anything...those are well...classmates so they are friends right? *confused* maybe coz i'm a cold fish...unless some1 speaks to me, i'd rather be left alone~ :P

for me, good friends are friends i will email/meet regularly... but best friends are the people who i think of everyday..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on April 30 2005, 09:21 pm
Guess I don't really have a best friend then - I only think of her when I see her LOL
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on April 30 2005, 09:25 pm
well.. different people may have different interpretation.. *winks*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: cblossom on May 01 2005, 02:16 am
cblossom> may i ask why do you have to switch schools in Sept and Oct?
O no I didnt swtch schools in sep and oct Iif I type that Im sorry I dont mean to get u confuised . :sweatdrop:
It was supposed to say I to that school in sep or oct I couldnt remember which month sorry again  :sweatdrop:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: cblossom on May 01 2005, 02:23 am
i have one... we share the same birthday, knew each since we were really smal like 1++ hahaha never separated till now!!!!! not fights at all!!!!!!
My and my friend we share the same birthday to! Except that mine is on the 25 but we are exacly alike
we finish eachothers sentences and we have never fighted .but I like sports and she isnt really into them she likes choior which is cool bcuz she likes to sing  :)

-sigh- wish I did....I have a very lonely life, even in preschool
U have friends all around the world so ur not lonely we r all friends and ur friends to! :)
so dont be sad  :(   and be  :D
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on May 01 2005, 06:23 am
O no I didnt swtch schools in sep and oct Iif I type that Im sorry I dont mean to get u confuised . :sweatdrop:
It was supposed to say I to that school in sep or oct I couldnt remember which month sorry again :sweatdrop:

oic..
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i think between best friends, its good to have one argument.. so that you will treasure your best friend even more..~
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: cblossom on May 01 2005, 06:44 am
Thats cool and true we havent gotten into a fight yet  :surprised:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on May 01 2005, 04:59 pm
it's also inevitable to have fights with your bestfriends sometimes, but if you're really the best of friends, you'll be able to sort the trouble immediately. just keep the lines of communication open. I can tell that from personal experience.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on May 02 2005, 01:55 am
yea after a fight you really realise how much you both need eachother and its over and done with pretty fast
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on May 02 2005, 10:13 am
Basically, you can't stand being away from each other. That's true friendship.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Espo on May 03 2005, 03:37 am
I Had a bf when i was in primary/infants (this is english school terms.. for americans etc probably when i was four-nine) and then she left... and i was lonely.. *cries* for three and a half years... till last October.. and i know have a great bf!! ^__^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on May 29 2005, 02:00 pm
I never define any of my friends as best friends. Because  if i do all my other friends will feel bad.
I do have alot of close friends though. I'm a very sociable person, so it's easy to talk to me even if you are shy
i love talking. Maybe that's why. So i have friends every where i go. I once meet this old brittish guy on an airplane. He seemed lonely so i started talking to him. Turns out the guy was hella rich and was going to visit his very cute 17 year old son. Till this day we still talk once in a while.
Ok so back on topic.
Ummm about 20 or 25 close friends. Not much but hey.
There all different in personality
but there all good at heart. i love them.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on May 29 2005, 02:21 pm
I've got many very good friends.
There are 3 friends of mine and we've been together since we were babies.
Then there are 5 school friends who are really nice.
Then there are 3 friends who live nearby but i don't get to see them much as we've all joined differt coachings and the times usually clashes.
Then there are the loads of friends i've made here. Hey, you all do consider me our friend, don't you?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on May 30 2005, 04:00 am
of course!  :keke:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on May 30 2005, 07:29 am
ummm let me think
i'm playing of course.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on May 30 2005, 09:16 pm
Thanx dear friends.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on May 30 2005, 09:20 pm
The problem with having a best friend is that it's used to manipulate you...they say you're not acting like a bf, or that you should do something bcos you're bfs. The term can be used to make you feel guilty, so you'll do what the other person wants.

(And I consider you a friend too, S.Espoire!)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on May 30 2005, 09:40 pm
Thanx.
I don't want to call anyone my best friend coz it won't b very fair to others. then now i try not to get very close with someone bcoz last time that happened the friendship didn't stayed like that for long and now she is just a good friend but i had told her things i never said before so now i don't feel good to know that she call b telling all that to her present best freind. (Though i m sure she won't do that. she is not that kind of a person)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on May 30 2005, 10:59 pm
i always thought best friends wont manipulate you.. but in fact they always keep you on the right track?

like i said before i have 4 other very good friends that i always thought of them as my best friends or even as sisters.. now that im so far away from them.. we still contact one other through letters or msn.. they are happy as long as i am happy...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: .::ka::. on May 31 2005, 12:16 am
Uhm, I never had a true friends, though. Maybe cos' I'm so weird huh ? ^^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on May 31 2005, 04:49 am
Your not weird. maybe you just don't open up easily to people.
Many of my friends are the total opposites. I'm your friend. ^_^ Happy?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on May 31 2005, 09:55 am
Ummm about 20 or 25 close friends. Not much but hey.

that made me laugh... a LOT
not much ?? LMAO
i think i had like a total of 4 people... maybe 3 friends, and they wernt even close.
then everyone else i know shunned me and made fun of me (when i done nothing wrong)
life sucks
just cos i'm not out-going people think i'm retarded
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: lika-chi on May 31 2005, 11:40 am
i'm not out-going unless you REALLY know me.. because i don't really like talking to people i'm not really close with so yea..

i don't even have that many close friends.. probably like around 10 or something but 20 something O.O whoo.. that's alot..

best friends are hard to find.. well come across not find.. because you never know if they're backstab you or whatever.. i've experienced it before so i know
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Okamirei on May 31 2005, 12:45 pm
hmm...I don't think I ever had true friends. I'm more of a "play with me when you want to, when you don't , I'm here playing by myself"  :sweatdrop:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on May 31 2005, 01:12 pm
Hey you shouldn't say that about yourself.
Maybe i was a little understating the whole 20 friends thing but i really do have that many. They come and go sometimes but that's who they are. I have a lot of friends that think the way you do, but if you trulyy open your eyes you can see that you have alot of people that care about you. I care.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on May 31 2005, 06:32 pm
In fact, all of us here are friends right? :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on May 31 2005, 10:05 pm
Yes of course. You can count on us.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on May 31 2005, 10:15 pm
We're like an anime union...all for one and one for all!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on May 31 2005, 10:20 pm
yeah.. you can count on that!
*winks*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: cblossom on June 01 2005, 11:37 am
Yea totally  count on us! :okay: :D
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 02 2005, 06:18 am
My sister is my favorite person in the world! I love her to death! and my best friend name is Yvette, shes been my best friend for over 6 years now
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 02 2005, 12:27 pm
That's cool my cousin is like the only one i truly fully trust. her and my grandma
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 02 2005, 02:01 pm
I don't have a best friend...
....I don't even have a real friend...not anyone close, anyways.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 02 2005, 02:07 pm
I think its interesting how some people can have so many close friends (that would drive me crazy) and others very little or none at all. I can only stand to be around only a few people at once. but this one guy I know isn't happy unles he is surounded by friends.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 02 2005, 02:09 pm
Yeah, I feel too crowded if there's too many people around me...kinda why I'm so uncomfortable in a classroom (especially when a teacher calls on you...I just freeze and stutter). But if I had one or two people just sitting and talking, I feel quite comfortable...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 02 2005, 02:17 pm
blah I know that feeling because while I am homeschooled I did take a few classes for fun at the school. I took American Sign Language. and for the 3 years I took it my teacher took every opportunity to point me out and how I knew whats its truely like to be deaf because my parents are technically deaf (they CAN hear!...with a hearing aide) it made me very mad, going around telling the class about how I use sign language all the time and have to interperate for my parents (which I don't have to and kept telling her that!) OHH. sorry stuff like that makes me mad and now I'm ranting.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 02 2005, 02:25 pm
Oh yeah! I hate when teachers give out that kind of info...
Just today, my teacher was at the front of the room and he's like, "So how is your brother?" And everyone was like, "What's up with her brother?" and he pretty much told the whole story about my brother. It's a long story, and really complicated, but I mean, the only reason my mom told him about it was because I was so phased out in class because I was upset about it. That gave him NO right to start telling the entire class!
I was pretty peeved.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 02 2005, 02:29 pm
yeah the same teacher I was talking about told the class that my friend had cancer becuase he was gone for a few days when all he was doing was getting a mole removed! he was so upset he signed out of the class.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 02 2005, 02:39 pm
That's horrible! I bet he's going to have a short life (the teacher, not your friend)....haha...that's mean...I'll shut up now.

But yeah...back to the topic! [don't wanna get in trouble for being off topic...again! haha]
I guess I DO have a best friend...but he lives so far away...it's difficult. But I share everything with him. No secrets whatsoever!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 02 2005, 02:43 pm
Thats cool. its good to have friends. right now I'm on the phone with my sister, shes in wyoming, she thinks, shes not sure. lol shes bare foot at a gas station. shes crazy.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on June 02 2005, 04:48 pm
I don't usually get too close with my friends coz i am afraid of being judged by them. Well at least the closest friend i have doesn't make fun of my interest in animes and mangas.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 03 2005, 01:04 pm
That's a true friend . He he
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 03 2005, 06:41 pm
yeah.. true friends wont change you but accept who you really are...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: wisteria on June 03 2005, 07:28 pm
Friendships? does it really last that long as always shown in the shows? I think it is the most unstable relationship between people. one small fight, different opinons, wrong words came out of your mouth thats it. best friend can be easily became your biggest enemies. Even your best friend can betrayed you.  I always believed that your friend won't be your friend forever.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 03 2005, 08:00 pm
Yeah....sometimes I look at my friends and can't help thinking....

'In 10 years time, will we even be speaking to each other anymore?'
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 04 2005, 08:20 am
funnily.. i thought of it as well.. like 10 years down the road.. will i still hang around with the same group of friends.. hopefully yes.. because im an introvert and its really hard for me to go around and make friends..

but the best kind of friend i want is someone like Tomoyo-chan! hehe..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 04 2005, 08:23 am
Oh wow! Another introvert! It;s hard to get the courage to talk to other people, I find, so I end up sticking with the same group of friends, and my best friend. I really hope we can stick together, because otherwise I'll have a very lonely future..LOL
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 04 2005, 08:28 am
nice avatar and signature you have, Ruby Chan!

yeah, i totally can understand what you mean getting all the courage to talk to other people.. sometimes, i rather other people talk to me.. hehe..

thats why most of the time.. people thought i am so snobbish because i rather keep quiet than mixing around with the crowd... but once they get to know me better.. im actually very approachable.. *lol*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Light_Card on June 04 2005, 08:30 am
Well thanks Dark_Card you said that yvette was your best friend when i'm sittin here and i go to check my e-mail and you didn't send me any e-mail the only way i get to talk to you is to go here and post to you you mangy little ingrate i'm sitting here with like tons of kids just screaming and wanna know something no one here knew i was comming here i am 1000 miles away from my home and anyone who is my friend i went for a walk for and hour and NOONE even knew i was gone i'm surrounded by people who if they wern't related to me would never talk to me otherwise and now someone is reading over my shoulder so now i'm going to get the pity hang out i'm soo pissed right now. THEY DIDN'T KNOW I WAS COMMING!!!!!!!! mom didn't tell them!!! They are having a Rapking family reunion and I just show up out of the blue no one my age wants to talk to me the only one who does talk to me is 10 years younger than me oh man i just ranted in the wrong place didn't  I well i'm not typing that again so i'll try and save it i need a friend right now i'm so far from my home and anyone that  i know  and my best friend is my little sister (btw mootwa I was kidding about the Yvette thing that i said i'm not mad at you) the longest that I have ever been away from Dark_Card was a month and a half last summer and i really miss her now but i don't want you to worry about me i'm more worried about Dark_Card being lonely BEST FRIENDS ARE THE BEST!!!!!!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 04 2005, 08:49 am
Light card, hope you are feeling better..

*take a deep breathe*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 04 2005, 08:49 am
yes they are
i had one that went through a lot of obsticles. i really thought life hated her. poor gir but at least i loved her more than anything.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on June 04 2005, 09:55 am
She must've been happy to have a friend like you looney. :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Light_Card on June 04 2005, 02:02 pm
Well I am feeling a bit better since I got to talk  to  Dark_Card on the phone but i started to cry while i was on the phone and now everyone is hugging me and telling me that i'm special and they want me to be happy my cousions are the most emotionally retarded people that i've ever met because while i was crying they were ignoring me and now they are all trying to "love" me after i've already made myself stop crying yeah big help thanks guys and to all of you guys out there remember: 'Family reunions give you the chance to talk to ppl you would otherwise never hang out with.'

Peace Love and All That Jive.

BTW life isn't really all that bad but it just seems that way when you are away from your friends, are on your period, or when you run out of chocolate. All of which happened today. Sad isn't.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 04 2005, 06:32 pm
just felt like saying (since its good to say here)
that i love all my friends and i don't know what i'd do without them. *nods*
they make me, me. and they have helped me improve and move on from past mistakes.
and i love them all, they are special ^^
i know i've been down and out with no friends to my name at all, but now i have some. i know i'm more lucky than i've ever been :keke:
i may not be outgoing or funny or witty or anything, but i'll be there with an open ear to listen to my friends problems and i'll always try to help them, or talk to them in thier time of need, its the very least i can do, they were there for me when i was down in my low times. and its a thank you since i've now grown and become much more happy with myself :keke:

... thats all.. i just felt like i had to say it.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on June 05 2005, 01:49 am
I have been lucky with friends too. I am an introvert. I prefer to stay alone and I will keep feeling lonely but I am not good at making friends. But by chance wherever i was new I came across someone who was really good at making friends and i got friends with her and she made loads of other friends too. so i have a few big groups where i belong.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Pickthelock on June 05 2005, 03:12 am
I am very close to my twin sister and a few other friends, as well as a bunch of friends online that I love. *hugs her Musashi-chan*

My twin sister has always been there, as well as my other friends offline. I have also made alot of friends this year because of my interest in manga and anime. *chuckle*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 05 2005, 04:01 am
ohh.. i always hear that if you have a twin.. you will be very close to.. its like its so nice and interesting! your guaranteed lifelong friend?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 05 2005, 07:06 am
it's true, i went out with a twin once they were inseperable shared everything
creeped me out in the begining but i found out later how luck they are to have someone who knows you inside and out.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Light_Card on June 05 2005, 12:29 pm
I have had a couple of Twins tell me that Dark_Card and I were closer then she was with her sister and when we were little our mom used to joke that we were twins that were born 19 months and 19 days apart
It is really funny because whenever one of us is like mad or scared the other one knows and if we sit too close together we will sometimes know what eachother is thinking FREAKY Isn't. lol
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Dark_Card on June 05 2005, 02:34 pm
yeah I've never met twins that ever got along even now that I think about it...weird. and Light_Card I know things suck for you right now. but breathe. it'll get better!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 05 2005, 08:45 pm
We have twins in our class...two boys. They're really close friends, and never ever argue...plus, they don't resent the fact that they're always called 'twin' instead of their names, as noone can tell them apart
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 05 2005, 09:23 pm
i had a fried who was a twin, he was teh most angry kid ever, he cried for hours when somone told him wrestling was fake. he used to get into mood swings and be angry, like he once picked up a table in the school common room and chucked it across the room. he once ran out of S.E class and punched / smashed a window on his way out he was so angry. bur beyond all that anger was a really cool funny kid ^_^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 05 2005, 11:22 pm
(O_o)!

how old is that kid? he's certainly very violent.. *sweats*

i have friends, a pair of twins (guys) who do not look identical.. *lol* and i remembered i kept asking, are you sure both of you are twins? they are very close to one another but their personalities are very very different.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 05 2005, 11:25 pm
Cool thing is, I was born on the same day as one of my closer friends...it's quite nice, actually, as we share the torment of having happy birthday sung to us in the middle of lessons.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 05 2005, 11:29 pm
he's the same age as me, he's violent cos he's so totally obsessed with wrestling, but see most people only see the mad man that he looks like, but i know him and he's much cooler than a load of other people i know :D
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: D.J.P on June 05 2005, 11:47 pm
I don't have any friends that I would consider close.

A fair few people I talk to, some of them I'd consider friends but no one close - oh well such is life  :tongue3:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Cardwitch on June 05 2005, 11:56 pm
I have quite a few friends. I feel a litle sad at the moment cause I'm worried I'm losing them because of everything that's going on a home... I'm just so worried about my mum at the moment and her problems that I just don't feel like talking to anyone...

I'd rather die then lose all my friends...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 05 2005, 11:59 pm
Just a thought...when you're an adult, do you have so many friends? Other than your work friends, I mean. Bbecause it's hard to keep in contact with your old school friends.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 06 2005, 12:01 am
I have quite a few friends. I feel a litle sad at the moment cause I'm worried I'm losing them because of everything that's going on a home... I'm just so worried about my mum at the moment and her problems that I just don't feel like talking to anyone...

I'd rather die then lose all my friends...

hey you know you can talk to me about anything like that if you want cardwitch ?
i'm always gonna be online if you want to talk about anything, k ?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: D.J.P on June 06 2005, 12:04 am
I only had 3 friends in my last couple of years of high school

One left after year 9, another after 10 and the other I just lost contact (he stop getting on ICQ)

most of my friends are my classmates from TAFE (currently and from the past)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Cardwitch on June 06 2005, 12:07 am
hey you know you can talk to me about anything like that if you want cardwitch ?
i'm always gonna be online if you want to talk about anything, k ?

*hugs you* Thank you, Vex! *To everyone else* Vex is 'the' best friend by the way ^_^

I also have two other friends, Kerry and Megan, but they get high on choclate to I have to deal with bottle fighting contests, topped off with chasing and having a got at James, who's always turning everything we say into something dirty -_- *sigh*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 06 2005, 04:31 am
I have quite a few friends. I feel a litle sad at the moment cause I'm worried I'm losing them because of everything that's going on a home... I'm just so worried about my mum at the moment and her problems that I just don't feel like talking to anyone...

I'd rather die then lose all my friends...

yeah, you can pm me too!

Just a thought...when you're an adult, do you have so many friends? Other than your work friends, I mean. Bbecause it's hard to keep in contact with your old school friends.

erm, i guess its the thoughts that count.. like myself, thankfully, there is MSN.. so i will try my best to log on every now and then especially weekends.. if not, when im back in Singapore.. i will definitely meet my close friends every weekend or fortnightly..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 09 2005, 11:41 am
It's really hard to kept in touch sometimes though so both you and your friend have to keep a good connection other wise you might forget them.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 10 2005, 09:42 am
i agree..

this is where the phase, "its the thoughts that matter..."

*winks*

but i do have experience with some friends that no matter how hard i try to keep in touch with them.. like emailing them every now and then.. its as if the emails were being just lost in cyberspace...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: mallow on June 10 2005, 12:11 pm
I just recieved a sms (direct translation) which says:

Friend is like a train, watch you alight and wait for you to board. I will not leave you easily because i'm the driver. It is my responsibility to send you to your destination. Friend wish  you be happy forever.

Isn't it touching?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 11 2005, 06:55 am
that's nice!

i'd also saw this when im looking for Winnie the Pooh stuffs..

Christopher Robin had a question to ask first, and he was wondering how to ask it.
"Well," he said at last, "it's a very nice house, and if your own house is blown down, you must go somewhere else, musn't you, Piglet? What would you do, if your house was blown down?"
Before Piglet could think, Pooh answered for him.
"He'd come and live with me," said Pooh, "wouldn't you?"
Piglet squeezed his paw. "Thank you, Pooh," he said, "I should love to."

so sweet huh?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on June 11 2005, 09:50 am
Yeah, how sweet! friends will always be there when there's an emergency. A large storm appeared once when I visited my Best friend, it flooded near our area, so she offered me to sleep in her house for the night, and I was still in my school uniform! She lended me her clothes, and we had a grand time having an "unplanned" sleepover! I love her so much. :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 11 2005, 11:55 pm
I'm very happy at the moment, because a whole group of my friend will be sharing my prefect duties at school with me! I was really worried that I'd be put with a group of people I didn't know, as I'm not very good at making friends  - too shy!

But they made sure that I was with them because they knew how I felt about it. Although some of them can be a bit manipulative at times, at the end of the day, they're great friends.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 12 2005, 07:18 am
your Shy? OMG
never notice your very outspoken to me. meant that as a complement ok. :keke:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 12 2005, 07:19 am
I'm ok online, or texting/emailing/calling. But put me face to face with someone, and I get all tongue tied and embarrassed. Luckily, my friends undertsnad, and they're a big help in getting to know other people. ^_^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: fisah on June 12 2005, 08:49 am
I have 2 best friends, one lives in BC and the other here. We are really close back in BC but me and my other friend moved. We still stay in touch though ^^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ralea on June 12 2005, 10:05 am
I'm ok online, or texting/emailing/calling. But put me face to face with someone, and I get all tongue tied and embarrassed. Luckily, my friends undertsnad, and they're a big help in getting to know other people. ^_^

Yeah, I'm like that. I'm pretty much quiet until I notice someone quieter than me, I go talk to them. And if I find a person who has the same taste in anime as me, we become friends. But I'm not one of those guys who walk around the school noisy. I easily get embarrassed and I'm shy as well.....but when someone hurts my friends (especially my best friend) I explode.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Princess Kakurine on June 12 2005, 10:19 pm
i have a best friend named faith. We were like sakura and tomoyo on our characteristics. Im the sporty one and the fashionable one. She is very good in music, she plays piano and sings too. Im taller than her. She is the shy type, and in the childish type :) But my hair is long like tomoyo and like tomoyo and faith's hair was just like sakura. The greatest of our friendship is always strong. Many obstacles/hardship/problems comes in our friendhip, but our  friendship remains strong, happy and forever... :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 13 2005, 12:50 am
I'm ok online, or texting/emailing/calling. But put me face to face with someone, and I get all tongue tied and embarrassed. Luckily, my friends undertsnad, and they're a big help in getting to know other people. ^_^

hehe.. me too!

im ok chatting online.. but when face to face.. i tend to stick to my friends.. hopefully, this is not a case of split personality.. hehe..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S:a:k:u:r:a on June 13 2005, 05:30 am
I have two best friends, their names are Kate and Sara. Sara's only a few months younger than me. while Kate is several years older than me. I think our friendship is slightly like that of Sakura & Tomoyo in terms of being great friends and understanding each other...though i seem to take on the role of Sakura more, while the other two are more alike to Tomoyo. ^_^
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Tweety72913 on June 13 2005, 04:31 pm
:sad5:   I dont have any best friends, I really dont have any friends to tell you the truth but I'm finally gradutaing from the school I'm at and I will be going to a different school next year so maybe i'll make new friends, or at least one really good friend  :okay: maybe  :sad5:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: S. Espoire on June 13 2005, 04:55 pm
well as now you are here. you should not say that you have no friends at all as here all of us are your friends. Well, as you are new  Welcome and just PM any of us if you need any help.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 14 2005, 11:46 am
man i am so out spoken it's not even funny.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 16 2005, 01:15 pm
Muahaha! I'm slowly getting friends back!
I consider Christine, Nellie, Fiona and Shelly good friends right now!
Wee, I feel like I'm getting back on track!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 17 2005, 03:12 am
why did you lose friends ?

but i recently met one of my friends again who i havn't seen in almost a year now since i stayed on in sixth form and he went to a different college, its good to know they still remmember me  :sweatdrop: and that thier doing what they wanted to do :D he was cool. shame i forgot to ask for his email. he and i were in the *Final Fantasy* club at school. it was just us and a few other people who were obsessed with Final Fantasy and Anime and Manga and things like that. like a total of only 4 or 5 people that actually liked it in my school >.> woo
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 18 2005, 02:08 pm
you should come to mine they have this thing called the anime club
all the do is watch classical anime like astroboy and knights of the zodiact and
 stuff like that. i'm not part of it cuz i got so many other clubs to go to.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: mallow on June 18 2005, 09:34 pm
My school also has it called the tripple A dun knoe what does it stand for? Basically watch episodes of anime and write a review on them! I just kow this friend from my friend for the past 2 weeks almost every day he will send me sms to encourage, amuse, advice me n stuff like that. so sweet! no of my friends has done this before except him
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: jovi206 on June 19 2005, 03:58 am
I have many good friends but two really close friends who i have known for 7 years. THey are really my best friends and we tell each other everything. we are all leaving upper sixth form and are all going into the same career in university so we'll be best friends practically forever.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 19 2005, 04:04 am
thats so nice!

lucky for me, my friends and i lived near to one other.. or better.. 2 of them drove.. so we can always meet up...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: jovi206 on June 19 2005, 01:21 pm
That is really nice blue topaz cause my two friends live far away and so far only one of us can drive legally.I'm  working on my parents they seem to think i'm a little toooooo crazy to be driving lol.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 19 2005, 09:19 pm
Sigh....I was friends with one girl in year 7. But my other friends didn't like her, so when I began to hang out with her, they isolated me too, and gave me the cold shoulder. She went ot another high school, and I ended up back with the original set of friends....but it hurt that they dropped me for liking someone else.

I haven't spoken to the other girl in over two years...I'm gonna try, and I hope it's not too late to keep the friendship going, because she was so nice.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 20 2005, 03:40 am
yeah jovi206.. i thought so too.. *grinz*

Ruby Chan, i will be sad if my friends gave me cold shoulder just because i hang out with a friend whom they do not like.. then i really need to think back about our friendship again..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 20 2005, 01:25 pm
Friends are like a pot of gold
hard to get and hard to hold
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 20 2005, 03:08 pm
I want a pot of gold! Then I can huck some gold at  so called friends and watch them roll around crying.
Okay, that's unrealistic...I'll use rocks instead. :tongue3:
Or my shoe!
My violent humor is back! Yay!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: sukina on June 20 2005, 04:17 pm
O_o oooooooookaaaaaaaaaaaay......... my friends are nice to me. I actually only have 1 TRUE friend, the rest are all preppy and I'm sorta like :sweatdrop:. I dont like to label but I had to! They even call themselves preppy! :dodge: but still I don't really like them, one of them talks about EVERYONE SHE MEETS behind their back. it gets really annoying. :hmp: At least now I might not see her anymore. My school year's already ended.  :greengrin:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 20 2005, 11:42 pm
what do you mean by preppy?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 22 2005, 11:26 am
you know the "I"ve got school spirit and like showing it off to those who don't care"
type
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 22 2005, 09:23 pm
"preppy" has come to mean the opposite or "punk" or "goth"-meaning unoriginal and stuck up, which is completely unfair to the true meaning of preppy.
(so yes, those of you who define preppy as:LOVES A+F, PINK, MAKEUP,MAKING FUN OF GOTHS and CHEERLEADING!!!!! are wrong)

the definition:
"preppy" is a lifestyle; that of many well-to-do and often "waspy" families of New England and New York; most preppy teenagers have been preppy since birth; have attended private/boarding schools in New England all of their lives; enjoy sophisticated, lifelong sports such as (but not restricted to)tennis, sailing, skiing, and golf. Many live in classically preppy areas such as New Canaan, CT; the North Shore, MA; Westchester County, NY; and Greenwich, CT. Many also have second or third homes in Vermont for skiing, or Nantucket/Block Island/Cape Cod for summers.
Many are legacies at boarding schools/colleges in the North East, many are talented but party as hard as they work; Most are old money (see wasp) but there are "nouveau riche" preps who may prefer more modern customs (ie. abercrombie etc) than the timeless classics of the "wasp" lifestyle.
Preppy clothing designers include (but are not limited to):
Lilly Pulitzer, Ralph Lauren, Petit Bateau, J.Crew, Anthropologie, Patagonia, Birkinstock, Brooks Brothers, Lacoste, C.K. Bradley, L.L. Bean, the North Face, etc.
Preppy Designers do NOT include:
Abercrombie and Fitch, Express, American Eagle, The Limited, Guess, Aeropostale, etc.
HOWEVER: preppy items may be found at many of these locations (ex: nantucket red girls chinos at American Eagle)
Preppy (girls) essentials include:
ribbon belts,minimal makeup (or better, none), minimal hair styling, pearls, oxfords, polos, chinos, birkinstock clogs, sauconys, headbands, cableknit sweaters, brightly colored pants, cropped pants, jack rogers sandals, lilly pulitzer sundresses, longchamp/herve chapelier/vineyard vines/ll bean totes, patagonia fleeces, reef sandals, JCrew bathing suits, rainbow sandals,moccasins/topsiders, and many more.
preppy (boys) essentials include:
brightly colored baseball hats, rainbow sandals, Ralph Lauren polo shirts (in ALL colors- the brighter the better), nautical rope bracelets, nantucket red khakis, messy/unkempt hair (or minimal styling), other brightly colored khakis/shorts, crewneck sweaters, flannel/plaid oxfords, rope belts, striped ties, vineyard vines ties, LL bean boots, patagonia fleeces, navy blazers + khakis, topsiders, and much more.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 23 2005, 04:00 am
The name I use for the stuck-up evil chicks at my school are Twinks.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 04:13 am
my mortal enemies are jocks
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 23 2005, 04:14 am
My mortal enimies are the twinks. They've made my life miserable from the start.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 04:18 am
jocks have made my life miserable from the start  o.O  so i guess i know what you mean

i've always been the quiet one....
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Okamirei on June 23 2005, 04:23 am
twinks? jocks? ...nani?  :sweatdrop: please define
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 23 2005, 04:38 am
(O_O)!
i didnt know preppy has such long definition.. and yes, im as lost as Okamirei, what are jocks and twinks?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 04:41 am
Jocks-
A person, who, contributes little or nothing to society.
A person who usually picks on the nerd or someone smaller than him See: Coward
Usually plays football or some other sport that honestly will not help them in the long run.
____________Note Below_______________
JOCKS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE CONFUSED WITH REAL ATHLETES.
Real athletes strive as hard as they can to reach a certain goal they strive at IE: Swimming, Running, playing Basketball, Boxing.
Many MANY Jocks cannot do these sports right, and will not anytime in the future.
Jocks waste their time on such trivial things to find out that it wont matter in the future.
Their lack of IQ and talent is replaced by good social skills, that wont matter in the long run either.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 23 2005, 04:49 am
*lol*

suddenly i just visualise jocks are guys with a very muscular body, blonde spiky hair and lack the intelligence..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 04:52 am
*lol*

suddenly i just visualise jocks are guys with a very muscular body, blonde spiky hair and lack the intelligence..
yup, you can see them wearing those football jerseys, i'm not even USA and they have thier own Football (Soccer) tops here where they wear it with thier name on theback >.> and they are ALL jerks
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 23 2005, 04:56 am
yup yup!! with their football jersey too.. *lol*

Vexnet: cool down man... you sound agitated..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 06:42 am
i'm not agitated o.O
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 23 2005, 07:12 am
I find your definitions amusing...cause they are absolutely true!
I would love to hear your take on a Twink, although I'm sure that's not the "universal" word for them.
But ya know, the Stuck-up cheerleader type chicks.
Pssh, I used to be best friends with one before she went to the "Dark side" and became one. Then she totally snubbed me and pretended like 8 years of friendship was nothing compared to a pair of shoes and a guy on her arm. I guess that's what "fuelled the fire" for my hatred :tongue3:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Okamirei on June 23 2005, 10:22 am
aah, I see. That classifies a lot of my classmates now, haha.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 23 2005, 11:24 am
I find your definitions amusing...cause they are absolutely true!
I would love to hear your take on a Twink, although I'm sure that's not the "universal" word for them.
But ya know, the Stuck-up cheerleader type chicks.
Pssh, I used to be best friends with one before she went to the "Dark side" and became one. Then she totally snubbed me and pretended like 8 years of friendship was nothing compared to a pair of shoes and a guy on her arm. I guess that's what "fuelled the fire" for my hatred :tongue3:

ehe. sorry never heard of a Twink. and if you want crazy definitions like the ones i give just go to here (http://www.urbandictionary.com/)

it contains some really amusing stuff. and you can add yoru own stuff too. its great.
got lots of slang and sayings too.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 23 2005, 11:36 am
You mean you've never met a total stuck up, snotty, self-centered, conceited and innapropriately scantily clad girl before?
Well, I envy you.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 23 2005, 10:42 pm
rights...

so i assume Twinks are use to describe the gals and Jocks for the guys? and also, it sounds that both twinks and jocks go well together?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 24 2005, 01:00 am
Yea they could fit eachother by what i hear. they just sound like Preps tho, and Spoiled Rich Kids, i hate them

You mean you've never met a total stuck up, snotty, self-centered, conceited and innapropriately scantily clad girl before?
Well, I envy you.

no i've met those, i just meant it as NOBODY has ever used the word Twink before you just said. anything close and Twinkies and i still have never had any of those. or maybe marmite snacks like Twiglets.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 08:06 am
yeah or like twinkies
don't like them
hey i've known cheerleaders like that but i got back at her by stealing her boyfriend
and kicking her off the squad. hehe i've got that power.
But anyways Endoh if your friend didn't appreciate you then screw her you've got me.
now what. funny cuz i have a friend that i've know for 12 years and no matter who tell me that they don't like her
 or that she's weird i don't care i love her all the same ( she is a bit weird but that's what i like)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 08:22 am
yeah or like twinkies
don't like them
hey i've known cheerleaders like that but i got back at her by stealing her boyfriend
and kicking her off the squad. hehe i've got that power.
But anyways Endoh if your friend didn't appreciate you then screw her you've got me.
now what. funny cuz i have a friend that i've know for 12 years and no matter who tell me that they don't like her
 or that she's weird i don't care i love her all the same ( she is a bit weird but that's what i like)
k, i said twinkies.
and that kinda of seems like Jockish/Preppy way of getting back at someone
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 11:42 am
if  you ever meet her you wouldn't even be talking Vexnet
do you want to know what she did? ok She got one of my best nicest guy friends drunk like hell and made him drive home
Now tell me would you, a responsible caring person, let anyone do that to anyone you know.
And please don't lie ok.
i went easy on her compared to what my friends were sugggesting.
what she did was not only irresponsible but it was revenge for a childish game
No matter how much you dislike a person
you do not and i repeat DO NOT put their life in danger
what if.. oh god i don't even want to think about it.
What if my friend had gotten hurt * pauses to cry*i would never had forgiven myself
But did she stop and think about the consequenses no she just thought of herself
i'm not mad despite of what hurt she's caused me I'm upset that she didn't have the brain to think her action had severe consequenses.
Now excuse me while i go cry my eyes out.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 12:44 pm
well, nobody forces you to drive anywhere so its your own choice if you want to drive home, because of an invention called Taxis :D
so i don't see it as being bad. and its thier own fault for going out drinking in the first place. if they were smart, they wouldn't drink. simple as that really.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 01:33 pm
Oh my god
i can't believe your actually saying this. It wasn't me that was drunk.It was my guy friend!!!!!!
why would you say something like that? you know that My guy friend thought that the girl and her were good friends that is why he trusted to drink around her.
like you would trust a good friend. she betrayed that trust. Is this not sinking in?
Oh and there are no taxis were i live and if there were they are really expensive
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 01:39 pm
no, i'm not saying anything about you not drinking. i'm just syaing anybody in thier Right Mind knows that if yourgoing to be Drinking (which you shouldn't be anyway unless its an occasion), you should have a plan to get home, i.e, Taxis, Busses, Lifts, Staying over.
I Mean the point is i don't think they should of been Drinking to begin with. its a totally Useless activity that normally ends badly anyway.
Am i the only person with enough Common sense to NOT Get drunk every day, every week or so on and so forth.
i don't Drink because i KNOW its bad and its in no way good for you so its totally and uutterly pointless.

if your gonna drink then the consequences are those that YOU Face. tough luck tough life, all cos your drinking.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 01:53 pm
so your saying that if and i'm only saying if,
your girl friend drunk and she her best friend gives her the keys to her car (if she had one)
she got into an accident and she broke her leg
all of that is entirely her fault????
I mean it's cool you hev such a strong dislike of alcohol but you can't blame my friend
it was aspecial occasion (graduation) and it was stupid of her to give him the keys Ok
i don't want to talk about it anymore your gettting me aggitated
if that was you i would have been just as worried
why do you look at it from a one sided perspective? he was drinking yes ok
did you even think that if he was ok what happened, how would have you reacted, how you feel if that was,
someone close to you?
i felt so lost when they told me what she did?
if he had hurt someone or worse himself there is not just one person to blame, is there?
ok i have to cry my eyes out again( and no i'm not playing i'm literally cryng as i type this)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 01:59 pm
First off , if you Knew my girlfriend, you'd know she would NEVER Drink. she's smarter than that.
plus everyon in my family and friends have organised drivers if there is drinkng.
and fine on that certain situation since it was Graduation. but i still can't really understand why somebody would do that to somebody else.
i just can't stand it when people moan about drinking when they just shouldn't in the first place.

i guess that thier not best of friends. since this topic suggests.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 02:02 pm
THANK YOU
that's what i've been trying to say.
it's like you think you know someone but one
day they just stab you in the worst way.
although it's never happened to me but if it's someone close to then it's like it happened.
I'm a girl i'm allowed to fell this way. *tear*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 02:03 pm
THANK YOU
that's what i've been trying to say.
it's like you think you know someone but one
day they just stab you in the worst way.
although it's never happened to me but if it's someone close to then it's like it happened.
I'm a girl i'm allowed to fell this way. *tear*

you mean she was close friends with him ? or you ?
girls... i still don't understand them
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 02:05 pm
Read more carefully
she was a close friend to him.
this didn't happen to me
it happened to my guy Friend.
that's why i was upset.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 02:09 pm
but thats what i don't understand. why would a close friend even THINK about doing anything like that.
i guess thats what the Motto for California is. "Breaking Hearts just to Pass the Time"
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 25 2005, 02:14 pm
That's what i've been trying to tell you
and you said it was the guys fault for drinking.
That's why i said i stole her boyfriend do you think i was being to har or too soft on her?
Haha that Motto, it's sorta true. it's funny.i would say one about ireland but i don't want to offend. And you still haven't answered my question. Do you want me to show you aroun Cali or do you already have someone doing it? i'd be happy to skip school? what do you say :greengrin:
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 25 2005, 02:30 pm
That's what i've been trying to tell you
and you said it was the guys fault for drinking.
That's why i said i stole her boyfriend do you think i was being to har or too soft on her?
Haha that Motto, it's sorta true. it's funny.i would say one about ireland but i don't want to offend. And you still haven't answered my question. Do you want me to show you aroun Cali or do you already have someone doing it? i'd be happy to skip school? what do you say :greengrin:

haha, i think i'll pass that, i'll have my girlfriend to show me around (shame she is terrible with geography and we'll probably get lost, but then again if i get lost i'd like it to be with her :D )

but it was still his choice to drink anyway, unless they tied him down and forced it literally down his throught (i doubt)
but stealing... as in cheating... i dunno...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 26 2005, 04:03 am
no not cheating
i mean literally, i got him and asked told him the story and he agreed to
my circumstances. i didn't do any thing
oh and i hope you got a cellphone and a few bus routes ready cuz your
gonna get lost.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 26 2005, 04:20 am
no, Cell Phones are rubbish, i don't like them. to me they are useless since i wouldn never be using it.

and no we don't need any bus routes or anything. trust, you don't know me. but anyways.

but stealing is the same area as cheating
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 26 2005, 05:03 am
Meh, I find cellphones plenty usefull.
Except for all the crap their putting on them these days. It seems so long ago when cellphones were used to actually CALL people! Geez!
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 26 2005, 05:07 am
Meh, I find cellphones plenty usefull.
Except for all the crap their putting on them these days. It seems so long ago when cellphones were used to actually CALL people! Geez!

you mean teh picture messaging and text messaging and video messages and such,

well it would be useless to me cos i have no friends to phone up *shrugs*
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 26 2005, 05:14 am
well, text messaging is fine (although it would probably be more timewise just to not be so lazy and actually open your mouth and talk to someone for once). But all that wireless internet crap...hell, you can even watch movies on your phones now! Ridiculous!
I don't call many people on my phone, but my mom only got me the phone so she would know where I am all the time. Plus, she was only really going to get my brother a phone, but there was a special deal so my phone is actually free and I share the plan (and the minutes) with my brother.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 26 2005, 08:22 am
Cell phone...
i can't complain, they've gotten me out of very hard places.
they aren't all hat but they are usefull
i have lost mine so many times and it sucks cuz i got important numbers on them *sigh* oh well.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Miss Jenni-Maie on June 26 2005, 04:46 pm
That's why I write down the numbers in my journal. I keep my little lists in there.
The only cell phone I "lost" was my first cell phone my "friend" dropped in the hottub.
I now owe my mother $170 dollars for the new phone I had to buy.
And my so called "Friend" doesn't think she should have to pay for it. Pssh, selfish.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Little Wolf on June 26 2005, 05:53 pm
This topic has been reported to me.

Please try to stay on topic, guys. :)
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 27 2005, 07:42 am
sorry!!!!
well where was i oh yeah best friend
huh only got 25 close friends as i said before. no best friend
because i don't think it's fair. here in the forum
probably  Endoh, and anyone else who volunteers
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Okamirei on June 27 2005, 09:07 am
"only" 25 close friends, loony-sama?  :sweatdrop:
-sigh- there was this survey I tried to take last time, it said "list at least 30 people you know". I couldn't even list 5...
it sometimes seems as though I have more friends online than in reality...
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Arcademan on June 27 2005, 09:22 am
-sigh- there was this survey I tried to take last time, it said "list at least 30 people you know". I couldn't even list 5...
it sometimes seems as though I have more friends online than in reality...

I know that feeling all too well. I'm not very user-friendly in real life :(
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 27 2005, 09:41 am
"only" 25 close friends, loony-sama? :sweatdrop:
-sigh- there was this survey I tried to take last time, it said "list at least 30 people you know". I couldn't even list 5...
it sometimes seems as though I have more friends online than in reality...
I know that feeling all too well. I'm not very user-friendly in real life :(

*sigh* i also know  that feeling. i could never list 30 O_O

i think off my head i could list ... 4.. 5, MAYBE 6... TOPS... -_- ... and i never see any of them anyway so they aren't really friends anyway >.>
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Ruby Chan on June 27 2005, 05:30 pm
Ohhh.....I'm sure you have more friends than that, you guys.....they didn't have to be mega close friends, did they?

But I feel a lot better now....I name over 30 friends, so I guess I'm getting over my shyness. ^^;
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 28 2005, 01:32 am
no those people i thought of were just normal if not only just friends. they were Nothing close.

people tend to hate me
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 28 2005, 05:03 am
no those people i thought of were just normal if not only just friends. they were Nothing close.

people tend to hate me

erm.. why would people tend to hate you?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 28 2005, 05:12 am
because i'm me? i don't know. i suppose i could of been easily labeled as "the nerd" spotty, constantly drawing, always on the pc, loved anime, loved video games etc
didn't go down too well with anyone else >.>
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: bLuetopaz on June 28 2005, 05:16 am
well, i dont see what's wrong with doing things you like... and its really bad of those people who labelled other people.. its kinda rude..
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 28 2005, 07:05 am
i like video games
i'm not nerdy ( i don't think so anyways)
but i love video games people are just rude.
i've meet the worst kind too Arcade man should know why
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: monkey on June 28 2005, 07:33 am
well mostly every that i was bullied by were Preps, Jocks, and every other kind of people who were popular
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: Jas-chan on June 28 2005, 07:38 am
and that is the reason I left my old school...no one spoke to me so I became really attentive to hearing things, they whisperd behind my back, and I had no friends.So my parents allowed me to change schools. Now is much better then then.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 28 2005, 07:41 am
Oh i'm so sorry
i formally apoligize for those people
i'm sorta of a jock but i'm a girl
and i hate it when they act all tough and big shot when they win one game.
so in behalf of all the idiotic jocks SORRY.
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: victoria on June 28 2005, 07:45 am
i have sum friends.....................um does step cousins count?
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 28 2005, 07:48 am
yes vicky they count.
i'm your friend
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: victoria on June 28 2005, 07:57 am
ya i know your my friend
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: victoria on June 28 2005, 08:01 am
and we will be friends forever even though we might not meet
Title: Re: Best of friends...
Post by: looney on June 28 2005, 08:02 am
good just making sure ok ok