General Discussions > Anything goes...
The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)
bLuetopaz:
when i had boyfriends.. erm, its like no one in my family will know... especially after you heard your family start gossiping about your brothers' girlfriends... you will definitely want to keep it a secret..
charme.*:
i would kick him.. haha and my family also loooves to gossip.. it's like a hobby to them..i really never understood the funny thing about gossiping.--
aishiteru:
--- Quote from: moezy-chan on August 27 2005, 01:14 pm ---This is usually true, but not in my case. I'm the youngest in my family and the roles are reversed. I have 1 older brother, he's the first born, and 2 older sisters. And all of them have mental disabilities. My brother has schizophrenia, and aspergers (high functioning autism) and my sisters' disabilities aren't classified. For this reason, my parents put even more pressure on me to uphold the family.
Growning up there was alot expected of me, but at the same time, they gave me more freedom from the others. If I chose to leave the house, they wouldn't even care, all they did was ask where I was going. If I was visiting a friend, they had to know who my friend was, but if I just wanted to leave and go off without anybody, they wouldn't even ask me. It has it's ups and downs. And in the long run, I will be able to take care of myself when I leave, unlike the others.
Also, I did mention that my brother moved out, but he moved into a group home for the disabled, so he has help anyways. I'll be the only one who has what it takes, and this also is where the pressure lays. My mother expects me to take care of all 3 of them when she and my father die! I definitely can't do that! But at least now, I won't have to take care of my brother, and I'm trying to teach my sisters how to take care of themselves, so hopefully it will work out for them.
--- End quote ---
aww moezy-chan. i hope everything turns out well for your brother and sisters. it's also very nice of you to be teaching your sisters how to fend for themselves. but doesn't it get hard sometimes.. always having the pressure put on you?
KawaiiHana:
I've never told my mom about my boyfriends.
She's one of those "You can't have a boyfriend until your 50" kind of people.
moezychan:
--- Quote from: aishiteru on August 27 2005, 01:18 pm ---aww moezy-chan. i hope everything turns out well for your brother and sisters. it's also very nice of you to be teaching your sisters how to fend for themselves. but doesn't it get hard sometimes.. always having the pressure put on you?
--- End quote ---
Yeah it gets hard, but I'm studying to become a teacher, and I just look at this as practice I can use when I finally get my licence!
Navigation
[0] Message Index
[#] Next page
[*] Previous page
Go to full version