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Strawberry:
@ Pretty
come on I'm sure your not ugly and I believe that most girls look pretty without make up

Anyway girls, I'm having a prob so is there anyone who can help me out?

me and my friends are going to an Anime convention called the Expo in May and I am the main organiser booking the hotel, arranging meet up area, plans, attendee list etc... I'm working hard to make this meet up well organised, but the thing I don't like is one of my good and closest friend is always inviting people he doesn't know well and people he never meet before from other forums. I'm particulary not happy with this because of the following reasons......

1) The more of us there are the more noise there will be, I got told off in past meetings due to the noise level just because the hotel was booked under my name and people seem to ignore me when I tell them to keep the noise level down. In the last meet up there was 6 of us and I was the one who have to face the neighbours, security and flatmates.

2) There were some people who confirmed their stay and never turned up without telling me. This has caused an unfair price plan for me and the members because in the last Expo I had to pay with my OWN money for people who never turned up and yep those people were an invite from another forum who we never meet before.

3) Realise there were people who join the meet up so they don’t have to make their own hotel arrangements because they know that will definitely get a room since I was working my *** off to organise this stuff, then they never again kept in contact with us after the Expo. I feel like I was being used.

4) Also realise there were people who never donated a penny for food and I notice those people are ones which joined us in the hotel for the same reason in 3)

I don't mind meeting these unknown people at the Expo, but its just inviting them into the hotel which I am concerned about and I believe they should make their own arrangements. I did try to talk to my friend, but he disagrees with me and believes that everyone should be invited regardless of where they are and how well we know them. What should I do?

moezychan:
I hate to say this Strawberry-chan, but you'll have to give an ultimatum. Make it clear that you are the one in charge, because you technically are, and if he insists that these people should come and is absolutely adament about it, then he should make his own group.

If he insists on usurping your authority, then he should be in charge of a group himself and see how difficult it is. It sounds harsh I know, but it's the best solution in this case. Either he gets rid of his friends, or he can't come in your group.

itsafactiact:
That sounds good to me, or you could have him do all the hotel accomodations so that its his butt on the line and not yours.

LSD:
if any of those things works...you have no choice to kick him out of the group... (as the last option)
show him who is in charge!

aishiteru:
make-up? what is that? haha.

usually, i wear chapstick on a day to day basis and put on some eyeliner in the morning so i don't look so tired, but it usually goes away by mid-day. other than special occasions such as sweet sixteens, formal parties, my dance rehearsal, dance pictures, and dance recital, i don't wear make-up. but i do know how to put it on.

i have a question about make-up also.

do you think there is a difference between buying the really expensive make-up or buying make-up from your local drugstore. i honestly don't see the difference unless you get foundation or something but other than that, i don't think there is.

so if there isn't a difference, why do people spend so much money buying like, a tube of lipstick?

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