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Jeannette:
Aww... hoshi, that is so sweet. (melts) Thanks for posting that.

Ralea:

--- Quote from: Sugar Fairy on January 30 2006, 11:52 am ---Really curious about what you guys would do if faced with the scenarios below. These are just hypothetical questions oki?

What would you do if your bestfriend admits to you that she likes this guy that you've had a crush on for the longest time? How would you react/what would you do if they start going out?

--- End quote ---

To each her own. Naturally, she's my best friend, and even if it huts me to see him going out with her, I'll still feel happy and supportive. Besides, if they start going out, that means that he's chosen her.

And hoshi that is so sweet!

AkaiYuki:
Oh my gosh I wasn't expecting so many replies! XD Thanks to all of you! You all gave really good advice, and I'm sorry to anyone who got scared after reading it! XD (I think that was fisah, right? LOL sorry about that!) And also, someone said it reminded them of that episode of Lizzie McGuire (sp?) and now that I thought about it, it reminds me of that episode, too! Anyway, I'll definitely be taking all of your advice! Thanks for listening! (If I can call it that since we're reading...)

Now to reply to the other girls!

Stawberry: You're having a friend problem, too? It seems really bad if you couldn't sleep! What was it? (You don't have to tell us if it's too personal, though!)

Sugar Fairy: Oh my goodness, don't you hate it when that kind of thing happens? Hmm, I'm not sure what to tell you.. How long have you liked the guy and how long has she known you like him? (Hypothetically!) Also, has she done something like this before or is this the first time?

moezy-chan: OK, I was going to PM you, but I think I can do it here! Alright, you said your mother has ALWAYS seemed to favor your brother, right? I hate to ask this, but is he the only boy (besides father) in your family? Because I once knew a girl who said her mother treated her brother WAY better than her and her sisters, but she said her mom's reason was because she had once lost a son during child birth. (Before the girl and her sisters were born) I'm not saying that's definitely it OR that it's a justiying reason, but I've heard it a lot..

Anyway, on the subject of the hospital: She never visited you in the hospital even once, but she visited your brother? Is his condition worse or anything like that? Again, even if that's true I don't think it's a justifying reason, but again, it's one I've heard a lot. Also, had you been in the hospital for anemia before? Because if so, maybe she's just used to you going there and turning out OK, but with your brother maybe it scares her more because he doesn't go to the hospital often.

However, your situation seems really complicated and no one knows it better than you. So if to you it seems she ALWAYS favors him no matter WHAT the situation, I have to agree with LadyUltima when she said it seems like your mom has a serious issue regarding you two. (Especially considering he tried to kill you) I'd advise trying to talk to her about it, but I know that sometimes talking to someone like your own mother about a subject like that can be very difficult.

Sugar Fairy:
Thanks for the replies LadyUltima, Hoshisenshi and Ralea!

I've got two friends who went through that right now. They've been bestfriends and they both liked the same guy for the longest time. They didn't encourage the guy,they were just being their natural selves and he chose one of them.

It's really sad for me, because they're both my friends.. and it's putting a strain in their relationship. I can relate to them both, in the sense that i can imagine how hurtful it must be to be, well, not chosen by your crush. but then again, i can also imagine what it would feel like to know that you were chosen, but you also know that being chosen hurts your bestfriend.

does that make sense?

Ralea:
Absolutely. Either way, it's sad that both will get hurt, no matter who he chooses.

Does anybody feel this? When suddenly people are whispering around you, and when you ask them they won't tell you. And then you get this uncomfortable feeling that it's about you? I can't stand that, and it's happenning to me now. I dunno why, maybe I'm just paranoid. Or maybe I'm just plain dense that I have no idea what's going on around me.

Sorry for that rant but I had to get that out. Whew.

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