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augustserenade:
Yuki-chan: I had a friend like that too. Except she didn't just copy me... she copied almost everyone in our group. For example, when I started to get like anime a lot, she suddenly started liking it. When another friend said she liked the Yankees, she started liking them and started watching games. And in music too, she jumped from liking one artist to the next, based on everyone else's tastes. I was always afraid that she didn't have any hobby/obsession to call her own, but it seems like she's grown out of the habit by now. I guess she was just really easily influenced.
Hopefully your friend will grow out of it too, and soon. If not, I guess the best way would be to tell her. If it were me, I'd probably just throw hints around, like Sugar Fairy said, since it's hard for me to confront someone so directly. Maybe she's trying to get closer to you and show that she has a lot in common with you (which wouldn't be true since she's copying you). In any case, she needs to get the message that copying you is annoying somehow...
itsafactiact:
there's a phrase that i'm trying to remember its something like imitation is the most sincere form of flattery. but you should just talk to them, they probably admire you so much they want to be just like you, maybe they think they are not good enough on their own. you should tell them that they are enough.
Sugar Fairy:
Really curious about what you guys would do if faced with the scenarios below. These are just hypothetical questions oki?
What would you do if your bestfriend admits to you that she likes this guy that you've had a crush on for the longest time? How would you react/what would you do if they start going out?
Jeannette:
If the friend knew that you had a crush on the guy she's now going out with, you would have a right to be mad, and I would decide whether you need to talk to her about this or not. If she didn't know, I wouldn't say anything.
augustserenade:
Yes, I agree with My Lady. *nodnod*
Here's something I found on my friend's Xanga site which I enjoyed reading. She put it on her blog, but I don't know if she wrote it, so maybe you've seen it before and maybe you haven't. I thought it'd be nice to share it with you all. ^__^
--- Quote ---Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, and your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.
--- End quote ---
Erm... tell me if this belongs in another thread or something. ^^;;;;
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