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Jeannette:
Your brother and your mom sound like they need serious help, moezy-chan. It might be natural for her to get angry with you for overexerting yourself after getting back from the hospital, but the fact that she beat you instead of just getting angry makes it seem more like she was just using you as an excuse to take out her frustration with something else. And, of course, nothing excuses your brother trying to kill you. And, Ralea, family may be family, but sometimes you -have- to break off from your family for your own sanity and safety. It's sad, but when your family, who is supposed to love you more than anybody else, is purposely and vindictively hurting you, you have to break away. I have a close friend who is destroying her life because her entire family are pieces of garbage and she refuses to break away because 'family is family.'
LSD:
awww yuki.. know how you feel.. i had this friend who was trying to steal my identidy T_T she copied my hair style, my clother. my lotion. even my shampoo!
and tried to steal my friends too. Everything stopped until i "tried" to talk to her but everything ended in a fight and she leave me alone ^^o.. she doesnt talk to me since then but its not that i care.. its reliable.
Moezy chan... dont feel upset... maybe its just in your mind that he's the fav one, maybe she's with him all the time because after all he is sick, and its not his fault he tried to hurt you... keep living your life and keep being happy with all the people who loves you (including us)
fisah:
*hugs all* Thanks you guys, I love being back here, I feel better already!
Moezy-chan: That's awful with the family! Honestly, I know they are family, who are suppose to love you, but they have some anger management issues. Its doesn't help much that you *just* came back from the hospital either. I hope you get better though.
AkaiYuki: 0__0! When I read that, I got a little scared, lol. In my opinion I think if it makes you feel uncomfortable you should tell her to kind of stop it a little. If she does have a crush on you, I guess you can say something like, "I think its very sweet of you to *like* me so much, but please, lay off a little". Lol, reading that, still makes it sound a teensy bit rude >_>
I'm not good with words, but I think you should tell her gently why, and she'll probably understand :)
Sugar Fairy:
AkaiYuki: it's kinda scary that she's doing everything you're doing, and wearing what you're wearing.. pretty much being a clone. if you have a boyfriend, you think she might steal him?
if you guys are really friends, then you should be able to talk to her about this. i mean, you SHOULD be able to tell your friends anything right? buut, if that approach sounds uncomfortable, then be sneaky and drop hints.. 'that looks like the shirt i bought the other day..., ey, when did you get the same haircut that i did?' :wink:
but you know what.. be proud of yourself. you know that you are YOU, you're not pretending to be anybody, nor trying to be anybody but yourself. she can't say that for herself (or she cn delude herself into believing that), but what the heck. you're YOU. you're living YOUR life. she can't copy that feeling of satisfaction of being happy with one's self. :okay:
Sugar Fairy:
--- Quote from: fisah on January 29 2006, 06:54 am ---Hey all
I know I've been gone for a long time, but my life has been really hectic. There's been a recent death in the family, which had me down fo a month or so. Then my parents have been fighting, and I'm starting to think its because of me.
I missed you guys ALOT, and I think isolatign myself from the world has just gotten me in trouble. I'm just really depressed I guess.
So, enough about my babble, what's up with you guys? Likachi has told me awhile ago there's been some drama of sorts, lol.
*hug*
--- End quote ---
So sorry for your loss..
As for your feeling that you're causing your parents to fight.. please try not to feel that way.. people act a bit differently when confronted with death, especially if it's as close as family. Guess coz its something thats too final, like you cant fight it or anything. shows your limitations as a human.
maybe your parents are feeling that way. they dont know how to handle their fear, so they're fighting. so, unless you deliberately tweaked their tempers, its not your fault..
and welcome back! and nice to meetcha.
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