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Jeannette:
Hmm... That is a difficult problem. It kinda sounds almost like it's a 'little sister' issue: you know how little sisters sometimes copy their older sister, because they think their sister is the coolest person on earth... Is your friend younger than you? I have a friend who's almost five years younger than me, and she sometimes does stuff like that. You don't want to be too harsh... But you do want to get her to stop. And much of the response would depend somewhat on whether she is younger or the same age, since you can't treat a fourteen-year old like an eighteen year old.
Hori:
I think ... She idolizes you..
you just need to tell her gently to stop.. and that you dont like it...
Say that you value your individualality ...
or something like that... ^_^
AkaiYuki:
She's actually a few weeks older than me! XD But I definitely dominate her by personality.. I actually didn't give a description of her personality, which I probably should have! She's very timid and quiet and I often have to stand up for her when she gets screwed over (like by teachers on grades and things like that). To put it bluntly, she's definitely an "uke". But ever since our friends starting joking about me being so boyish and so "seme", she's started saying that (when her and I talk about relationships) she'd definitely be seme (trust me, though, that'd NEVER happen).
She's really competitive for someone with her personality and I think she realizes I am, too, and maybe she's hoping I'll act even MORE dominating towards her if SHE tries to act dominating. However, when she claims to be "seme", she does it in a way where she's almost trying to get me to say I'd dominate her despite that because she randomly says things to imply that I'm stronger and smarter than her and things like that. Wow that was confusing, I hope you guys can understand that! XD
But anyway, instead of a big sister/little sister thing, a lot of my friends think she has a crush on me... Well, actually it used to be "a lot" of my friends but now it's more like "all" of them... *sweat drop*
I know that probably doesn't seem right considering she always imitates me, but trust me, if you knew her strange personality, it'd make sense. So basically, what I'm really worried about is hurting her feelings by telling her how much it annoys me that she imitates me.. -_- It's a weird situation, I know...
EDIT: LOL, I just saw Hori's post. Actually, I've kind of tried that already... Although I didn't let her know directly that I meant her, one time I started talking about how I hate it when people get so close to me that they start trying to become my clone and she simply said "I know! I hate that! It happens to me all the time!" (Which it doesn't..) So usually, I just drop it.
But maybe you're right and I should tell her directly that I mean her?
Jeannette:
Maybe she does have a crush on you. Funny way of expressing your feelings, but they do say that imitation is the highest form of flattery and everyone is different... She sounds like a rather mixed-up person. I'd say that your best bet is just to talk to her about it.
Ralea:
Fisah: WELCOME BACK! *glomps*
AkaiYuki: She idolizes you...reminds me of an episode in Lizzie McGuire where the new freshman imitates Lizzie until she drove her nuts. Try talking to her, and tell her straight to the point what's on your mind. If you're really friends, she'll understand.
moezy-chan: moezy, try to remember that family is still family. No matter what happens, he is still your brother. It's only natural that there should be negative feelings toward siblings, but you two are family. Nothing will change that. As for your mother.....she is still your mother, she beat you when you're doing laundry because she was probably concerned that you'd overexert yourself in working when you just came from the hospital. It's natural for a mother to be concerned for her children when they are sick.....
Sorry...not much comfort am I?
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