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Crystal_Wings:
I haven't posted anything meaningful in a long time. I feel bad about that. I have nothing girly to complain about really.
I do have a concern about my Internet life that I would like to have feedback on.
There is this guy who I met online who seemed really nice at first, but he keeps hitting on me and now when we are talking he says things that aren't well.... nice. He acts decent most of the time, but then all of a sudden he changes. I usually ignore him when he acts inapropriate, but he doesn't seem to be getting the message. Now I'm concerned that maybe I caused this somehow. Did I say something to make him think I wasn't a girl with moral standards? I don't think so... but it's just frustrating and ...argh! Why are guys such jerks sometimes... OK ranting is done.

itsafactiact:
Wow I didn't even know about this thread. possibly cuz i'm new...but so what we just talk about whatever? boys, life, and everything else? well umm, I personally have the worst love life imaginable, its actually non existant. And i'm fine with that...I guess. I've never been one of those girls to "need" a guy. But guys either don't know I exist or I become their best friend...kinda sucks.

Jeannette:
Crystal Wings- If a guy is acting inappropriately, TELL HIM that what he is doing/saying is making you uncomfortable. If he doesn't stop, then stop talking to him. You have no reason to put up with anything like that. And I'm sure it's not your fault that he started acting like this, but you can put a stop to it, even if you have to completely break the relationship off. Some people don't get the message when you ignore them because that's just not how they think or operate; you have to tell them, instead of sending silent signals like that.

itsafactiact- Hey, welcome to the Realm of the Singles. We can all keep each other company. And don't worry, one of these days that will all change for you.

moezychan:
Crystal-chan, don't think that even for a moment it's your fault! The guy is an insensitive jerk, and doesn't deserve your time. It's his fault that he's like that. I completely agree with LadyUltima. Tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't stop, block him from your list. The last thing we need is for you to get hurt!

And now I have a bit of news. I just saw my crush, and he noticed me, but then he walked by. Obviously I'm in the computer room, and he was on the other side of the glass wall, but I feel upset. I want to talk to him. I like Ryan, but I don't know how to act around him. I wish I could be more assertive when it came to my feelings. I'm too much like Syaoran.  :cry:

babypigggy:
apparently. i dont get periods, so haha ><" i cant make any cramp updates lol
and...i guess i dont have a crush either..oh dear o-O" is that BAD?

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