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moezychan:
Oh, I'm sorry Monse-chan. Question, how old is your mother?
Zeldi:
Oh i'm Sorry Monse-San! If you want to talk.. PM ok?
Monse-chan:
--- Quote from: moezy-chan on November 05 2005, 12:48 pm ---Oh, I'm sorry Monse-chan. Question, how old is your mother?
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Mom is 34 years old, I think
She married at age 19 and had me when she was 20.....she is really young, and considering my father is 52, they often see things differently :dodge:
moezychan:
--- Quote from: Monse-chan on November 06 2005, 06:04 am ---Mom is 34 years old, I think
She married at age 19 and had me when she was 20.....she is really young, and considering my father is 52, they often see things differently :dodge:
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That's what I thought. The reason for this is, your mom has trouble raising you because when she had you, she was still a child herself. She had to force herself to grow up and raise a baby, but she wasn't ready yet. After your sister was born, she had more experience, and gave your sister what she wasn't able to give you; the attention that you needed, so be a little easy on her.
My mom did the same to me. She wasn't a teenager when she had me, but she had 3 children before me. They all had mental disablilities and I didn't. She didn't know how to raise me, because she never raised a child without a disability. Learn to forgive your mother. It's entirely her fault.
Monse-chan:
--- Quote from: moezy-chan on November 06 2005, 11:46 am --- Learn to forgive your mother. It's entirely her fault.
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I guess I have to learn. But it really annoys me that even if she knows how to raise better now, she only does it with my sis!!! Also, I think she cares and worries more about Marina because when she was born, she had a problem in her ears and couldn't hear anything. (She learned to talk at age 5 I think)
Even so, I would like to be noticed. At least once. When I am looking all depressed, my dad is the one that buys me chocolate to make me feel better. My mom doesn't even notice!! :cry:
Before I used to think I could count in everything with her, but when we went France, she started to ignore me and when I told her that bothered me, she would laugh and tell me to go to my bedroom to think.
She was insecure of herself because she didn't talked the language. And I was spected to arrange everything, from the plane flight back to Mexico, to the groceries!!!!!! That made me mature, and I guess my mom thought I was already grown up or something, now she treats we like a fully grown person and tells me to grow up when I tell her something that bothers or scares me.
I mean, I could have turned more mature in that trip, but I could use some advice from my mother, even if I am 99 years old. Lately instead of telling HER the things that worry me, I write letters. But I never give them to her. When I gave her one once, she laughed at it as if it was a joke.
And I was really hurt. So I don't show them to her anymore. And they are not adressed to her anymore anyway. Even so, it makes me so sad to see that everything changed between us when everything was great before. -_-
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