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LSD:
sorry pal, have you tried talk to her???
i had a similar experience but this friend was trying to be me, when she copy my hair style i knew that this wasnt normal ,she tried to take away all my friends for me and she even was trying to take away the boy i like from me (great it didn't work), talk like me, walk like me, it was like those scary movie and that the bad guy want to take away the identidy of the good one, it was scary.
So i go straight to her and say all i had to say, and she said "sorry i didn't know you think like that, it's not my fault people like me more than you" i was so mad, i wasn't yelling at all but when she said me that i was so so mad, we yelled so hard and ended in a real fight, we were suspended from school that day, at least i left her a black eye and a big headache cuz i pulled hard his hair. As it was expected she never talk to me again =o), and at least she stopped with that bad habit to act like me.
Ruby Chan:
--- Quote from: Monse-chan on November 02 2005, 08:30 am --- I suppose, you people are the ones I count on, not my "friends" in school :dodge:
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Yeah...it's sad but true. All of my really close friends....just fail as friends really. The people who really understand me are actually the people I'm less close to, so recently I've started hanging out with them more often, trying to get to know them better. Other than that...it's you guys! Coming onto this forum was the first time I actually felt that if I expressed an opinion, I wouldn't get shot down for not fitting in with the crowd, or seeming stupid.
So guys....thankyou!
Monse-chan:
--- Quote from: pretty on November 02 2005, 08:41 am ---sorry pal, have u tried talk to her???
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Tons of times. But it gets really hard, because she starts to say things like "BUT I WANT TO BE LIKE YOU!!"
"But I want to be with you, the rest of my friends are boring"
And when I try to explain to her she has to be herself, she simply goes "Ok"
Half hour later, she comes over to see me brush my teeth :sleepy5:
When I tell her I want to spend some time with my other friends, she wants to come over too. She invites herself, even if I am going to the dentist. :XD:
It has been like that for 5 years now. When I left for a year, and then came back, she practically lived in our house for at least 2 weeks :dodge:
AkaiYuki:
--- Quote from: Ruby Chan on November 02 2005, 08:43 am ---Yeah...it's sad but true. All of my really close friends....just fail as friends really. The people who really understand me are actually the people I'm less close to, so recently I've started hanging out with them more often, trying to get to know them better. Other than that...it's you guys! Coming onto this forum was the first time I actually felt that if I expressed an opinion, I wouldn't get shot down for not fitting in with the crowd, or seeming stupid.
So guys....thankyou!
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Oh my god, I'm in that exact same situation right now! I have a "close" friend in RL, and she won't let me hang with ANYONE except for her, but as soon as she wants to hang with other people, that's OK!
She's SO annoying! All she does is copy me and claims she's just like me and loves everything I love and hates everything I hate, she buys everything I buy, wears everything I wear, plays every video game I play, watches every anime I watch, and then she'll even copy which characters I like and dislike! ((This one time, just to prove it, I showed her a character I knew she'd think is ugly, although I think he's adorable, and so I found his pic and showed him to her without telling her how I felt about him first and she says "Ew, he's DISGUSTING!" And I'm like "Are you KIDDING?! He's my huggle muffin!" and then she said, "Well I guess he's OK.." and the next day she acted like she liked him all along! And now, he's all she ever talks about!! *vein vein*))
But anyway, so yeah, I'm trying to find oppurtunities to hang out with other people, too, though it's hard because most of them are our "mutual" friends ((meaning they were my friends and I made the mistake of introducing her to them and now she bugs them, too..)) But I don't mind, I like you guys at CW much better, anyway! ^_^ And that includes ALL my friends in RL! XD
Cherry-chan:
I used to have a friend like that!
I know it sounds selfish, but I'm starting to get bored of some of my friends in the group I most often hang out with. I've know most of them for 5 years. I'm starting to want to be close with some other people who I'm not that close with. But for some odd reason, I don't want to let go of the old friends. Sounds weird, eh. Maybe I'm just afraid of being alone. Maybe. But yeah, I agree, Ruby Chan and AkaiYuki, CW people are the best! I owe it all to you guys for taking a different perspective on life.
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