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moezychan:
Sugoi Yuki-chan.  :sweatdrop: That happens to me too, and I really don't like it. It actually got worse after I lost 80 pounds. I really can't stand it when men only see me as a sex object, when I do have a brain. Another thing that I got upset about, that I've already told but I'll say it anyways; my brother came at me with a knife and tried to kill me. He got to stay home, and my mother rather have had me leave than him. Part of the reason was his disability, but I have 2 sisters that also have disabilities and my mom threatened to kick them out as well.

I would tell her that she needed to find him someplace else to live, but she wouldn't listen to me. And yet when our town trusty said this, she believed him. My mom can't live without a man's approval, and I can't stand that. It's only because my grandfather abused her, and she wants that male attention. She can't even see my father for who he really is. That's why I'm never getting married. It's not that I hate men, it's just that I would hate giving up my independence. I'd give you a cookie for your post, but I already gave you one, and it hasn't been 5 hours yet. When the time limit is done, I'll give you another cookie.

AkaiYuki:

--- Quote from: moezy-chan on October 25 2005, 06:40 am ---Sugoi Yuki-chan.  :sweatdrop: That happens to me too, and I really don't like it. It actually got worse after I lost 80 pounds. I really can't stand it when men only see me as a sex object, when I do have a brain. Another thing that I got upset about, that I've already told but I'll say it anyways; my brother came at me with a knife and tried to kill me. He got to stay home, and my mother rather have had me leave than him. Part of the reason was his disability, but I have 2 sisters that also have disabilities and my mom threatened to kick them out as well.

I would tell her that she needed to find him someplace else to live, but she wouldn't listen to me. And yet when our town trusty said this, she believed him. My mom can't live without a man's approval, and I can't stand that. It's only because my grandfather abused her, and she wants that male attention. She can't even see my father for who he really is. That's why I'm never getting married. It's not that I hate men, it's just that I would hate giving up my independence. I'd give you a cookie for your post, but I already gave you one, and it hasn't been 5 hours yet. When the time limit is done, I'll give you another cookie.

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I don't plan on getting married, either.. And you know what, I think YOU are the one who deserves the cookie! *gives you one* But uh-oh, it's time for Yuki to say something sappy:

*hugs moezy* You know, we only talk on the forums, but you are a really good person. I can tell. You have been through so much in your life, and you're still so young. I am young, as well, but I've only suffered discrimination and harrassment, which I can survive, but what YOU'VE suffered is abuse. Even if you did post that thing that happened with your brother, I wasn't here to see it, so it's new to me and it's very shocking and unfair. The female role-models in your life don't seem very strong, but you've grown to be an independent and powerful woman despite that. I admire you, and truly hope for you to have much happiness in your life, because you deserve it more than almost every person I've ever met, including myself. *hugs again*

moezychan:
Arigatou Yuki-chan. That was so heartfelt and beautiful that I'm crying now.  But I don't feel that I've suffered the most. There's people out there that have gone through worse than I have, and that's why I do my best to help as many people as I can.

One thing I would like to say to VexNet-san though. I hope that you can learn to have more confidence in yourself, because I've tried to help you, and you won't even accept my help. I know Harumi-chan hurt you, but are you going to let 2 people on this forum get in the way of your true happiness? I was not trying to make it seem like the entire male population is evil. I'm just giving my side of the story. I've been abused by men nearly my whole life. My father wouldn't even bother to spend the time I need with him, my brother tried to kill me, and my cousin tried to sexually molest me, and I still hold my head up high, and I face the world with a smile and a kind word.

You're girlfriend dumped you, I made one comment, and Yuki-chan backs me up. You're calling us sexist? Now if you can tell me that a women tried to take advantage of your body, I will stop my ranting and agree that there are some women that are sexist, but look at it this way. It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. I was never loved and I got over it. So should you.

AkaiYuki:

--- Quote from: VexNet on October 25 2005, 06:41 am ---AkaiYuki.. thank you for making me lose more faith in women. Your not exactly helping yourself.

the only men i know who are sexist are (surprisingly enough) Jocks and the majority of the other popular "players" all of who i hate. If I was one then I wouldn't feel ANY offense with what she said, but since i'm NOTHING like the freaking bastards your talking about, Yes I (as a Male human being) do get offended, Much so by your own post since your still forgetting the basic Fact that NOT ALL OF US ARE PIGS!!!

I'm ******* fed up of you lot putting the blame on us when we (the better part of the male population) have done jack shit to you.

also i'm not going to stop saying that just because the forum is majority female.

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VexNet, I'm sorry, but after your girlfriend left you, you have become very moody and very snappy. I did NOT claim that the entire male population is horrible, and you may re-read my post if you think that, I simply stated that as a generalization, women have it worse. For me to think that all men in the world have done something bad to me would require me being harrassed by roughly 3 billion people. Why is it that my post which at least has valid REASONS for me to feel the way I do upsets you, while YOU can simply say "haha, now i remmember how sexist girls are." and consider yourself justified? How is THAT fair? And how DARE you claim that I have caused you to lose your faith in women! Your foolish remarks didn't make me claim you made me lose my faith in men, so how did I deserve that?! I didn't even need to justify my reasons for my statements, obviously, because you just justified them yourself.

moezychan:
I really don't want any fights breaking out on the forums, so could we please stop. I love this place because it's always so happy, and the people are friendly. I hurts me to see fighting. I get enough of it at home.  :cry: I wish I had never made that post in the first place. If I didn't then there wouldn't be any fighting. Onegai, tamare. (Please, stop.)

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