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The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)
lika-chi:
Hey girls.. what's up? What we talking about right now? :sweatdrop: I don't come onto this thread anymore because I never know what the topic is. ROFL!!! HAHA! Silly me.
Yea anyways. I don't remember if we talked about this or not yet but I thought about it a while ago.
Would you like it more if the guy came up to you first or you going up to the guy first? I don't know if I'm asking the question properlly or not but yea. Something like that. I mean like people are saying how girls should be more (something). I'm not sure of the word. lolz. I only know it in chinese. HAHA! :sweatdrop: Like if a girl likes a guy, the girl should be the first to speak up. What do you guys think??
Do you think the guy should be the first or us girls?? I really think the guy should. Or probably depending on the situation. lolz
Miss Jenni-Maie:
I guess it would depend on this situation, like you said.
But I honestly would prefer the guy to make the first move, since I'd be too shy to do it first :tongue3:
lika-chi:
True true, the guy should make the first move.
Well let's say the guy likes you and you like the guy. Neither of you guys are making any moves. Until one day one of you guys finally do. Now who should that 'one of you' be?? lolz.
Guys can be jerks at times saying how the girls don't do anything and they should be the one that should be more 'direct'? lolz. I FOUND MY WORD!! lolz.
fisah:
Same with me, besides, when men do it, you feel reassurance that they like you, and if they like you, then you can be more open. Besides, guys dont have much to lose, while girls have a reputation to uphold and whatnot, so if they do get rejected, it dampens their reputation, and perhaps pride. I dont really care though, as long as the guy likes me, or I like him, I'll go for it, and if it doesn't work out, whatever, I've come to get annoyed by relationships right now, I'm only 15 anyway, thinking about a relaitonship is nerve-wracking :haha:
Anyway, what annoys me the most about my parents his how I come into every conversation. For example, some girl is a sl*t or something, and then my mother starts talking about how bad it would be if I became like that, and how I have to be careful, and how I shouldn't be so nice or perhaps how immature I can be, etc. and so forth. I get really frustrated because it seem like they have no faith in me! I hate it when I'm compared to something I'm not.
TO be honest, my parents dont like it when I go out late, or do something like shopping out late, or whatever. So, I read manga and watch anime to kill the time, and I enjoy it. Then, a few days ago, my parents start interrogating how I should stop being addidicted to the computer and do something productive. Then I asked "LIke what? I did my homework, did my chores etc." and then they say "Go out for example".
0.o
I nearly cried from frustation. It seems like parents wont ever be satisfied, and everything I do should be analyzed and criticized. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm human too, and i hate it when they think they know what's best, when they dont sometimes. I know they have good intentions, but I wish they could show it more nicely, or perhaps treat me like an adult with feelings. I'm the oldest too, and so I'm the 'second mother' and the 'role model', which pretty much means I have to be perfectly perfect, and cant make mistakes. Its really frustrating, and I get angry when my mistakes are so horrible, when my 13 year old sister does the same.
lika-chi:
HAHA!! I agree with you , Fisah, on the getting annoyed by relationships. *sigh* I so don't need one. My friends have like penlty of problems on their relationships and it just gets me want to stay single forever even more. lolz.
I guess when I like a guy, I tell them. ROFL!! Getting rejected sucks but I don't really mind. It actually brought my friendship with one of them closer. ROFL!! The other completely ignores me unless I talk to him first. *sigh*
My parents don't mind me staying out late. I just need to tell them. lolz. But my mom doesn't like me being on the computer all the time, watching anime, or reading manga. I should be reading more novel books. WHATEVER! I learn from manga too, you know. ROFL!! haha. And I've read like a lot of novels over the pass month. haha. And anime helps me with my jap. ROFL!!
My mom has been giving me the same speech for a while now. "Try to be more 'gentle' when you're talking." ROFL!! I'm like "yea.. yea.. yea whatever." That's exactly what she doesn't like but I take it after her. lolz. It's funny. I know at times, I speak in like a rude way but I can't really help it. ROFL!!!! And it's mostly only at home. ^__^ haha
WHOO!! I'm the second mother too and the role model of this family too. *sigh* IT SUCKS!!!
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