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Cherry-chan:
You're welcome, Monserrat :keke: Yeah, everytime I'm on the computer my mom always says, "What are you doing on the computer, huh? Huh? It better be research. Also, I have yet to see your math grades improve. Why don't you practice your math instead of going on the internet and reading that fanfiction!"
moezychan:
This is for Endoh-chan, Cherry-chan, and Monserrat-chan. I know that Monserrat-chan and Endoh-chan are teenagers, and I don't know what Cherry-chan's age is so I'm also assuming that Cherry-chan is also a teenager. If I'm wrong, please correct me.
As you all know my major in college is Education to become an elementary teacher, but I'm also getting my minor in Psycology (Study of the human mind). Before I begin, I hope I don't sound like a know-it-all, and am talking down to you. I apologise ahead of time. Also, don't tell your parents. I don't want any of you to get in trouble because of what I said.
I'm 22 and I remember what it was like to be a teenager. It su**s, I know, but the worst thing about it was how the relationship with my mother changed. I used to be able to talk to her, and tell her my problems, but the minute I turned 13, I became a kaijuu. I was he** on earth.
For Monserrat-chan, you stated that your relationship with your mother changed, and she favors your little sister instead. I know how that feels, only it was with my older sister. I'm the youngest in my family. Your mom is not made at you. Chances are, she's actually scared now that you are a teenager, and I'm also assuming you're the oldest.
Again, if I'm wrong, please correct me. But in the case that I am right, you are her first child that is growing up and becoming a young woman. She doesn't know what to do. Please be patient, and though it seems hard, try to listen to her, and help her. It will be difficult, but it won't last. Show her your love and hopefully she'll calm down.
The above was also for Cherry-chan. Again, if I'm wrong on any of my assumptions, please correct me.
And as for Endoh-chan, if our lives are as alike as I think they are, chances are your mom and dad are frustrated with your brother because they can't control him, and they choose to take it out on you. My parents did the same thing to me. The good news though, they realized what my brother was really like, and now that he's gone, they eased up on me. Be patient; things will turn around.
And this is for everybody: Zettai Daijobu Daioh! (Everything Will Definately be Alright!) I can guarantee, things will change for the better. It seems hopeless now, but things will definately change for the better!
Zeldi:
*Readed Moezy-Senpai´s post*
*speach less*
--- Quote from: CherryandWolfLover on September 20 2005, 12:19 pm ---You're welcome, Monserrat :keke: Yeah, everytime I'm on the computer my mom always says, "What are you doing on the computer, huh? Huh? It better be research. Also, I have yet to see your math grades improve. Why don't you practice your math instead of going on the internet and reading that fanfiction!"
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That´s my mom too.. Everyday.. So that´s why i´m online when she isn´t home.. It´s better for me then :heh:
Moon:
Great advice, Moezy-chan! It really helps even me, despite you talking to other girls. I'm frustated with my parents for treating me as though I'm 14 or younger and it really annoys me. ( Not like girls thoses age don't understand anything like that, I'm just saying... )
For example, after a quick trip to the library my mother was telling me about something she had heard on the news. Something about how teen books ( especially those for teenage girls ) have sexual sceens in them and that parents don't even know this. So, I felt like she was saying this because of the book I got ( The book is called Guitar Girl and it does mention sexs and the girl telling the story does have it eventually but it's not like the author went into huge sexual detail. )
What was pissing me off is that it seems she doesn't think that I can't handle that or I'm not mature enough to understand sexual crap. ( My goodness. I started to learn about stuff like that in 5-6th grade!! )
Anyway... I just want to thank you. ^_^
Alexiel:
You know what moezy-chan... you should be a psychologist... or those type of people that give out advice :lol:
My parents have no idea what I read... either they don't care or I unknowingly shunned them from knwoing at all *highly UNlikely -_-* There was a book like The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison (omg I have no idea how I remember the titles and authors o_o)... something like moonprincess18 mentioned. lol
--- Quote from: moonprincess18 on September 20 2005, 03:29 pm ---What was pissing me off is that it seems she doesn't think that I can't handle that or I'm not mature enough to understand sexual crap. ( My goodness. I started to learn about stuff like that in 5-6th grade!! )
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My mother had given me 'the talk'... yeah, same line. >_>
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