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The Girl Thread (New Poll as of May 24th!)
moezychan:
I guess I will. Let me start by saying that my life s**ks! I'm 22, I'm in college, and I have never had a date in my life, let alone been kissed! If anything I always attract the weirdos! I've had men who are old enough to be my grandfather hit on me. It always seems that the guys I like won't have anything to do with me, and the guys I want to avoid won't leave me alone. Am I doing anything wrong because this is so frustrating! :BangHead:
Anyone have any advice?
charme.*:
ehhh.. i'm 14 so lets say i won't be able to give a very good advice. Just one thing.. you have to be yourself.. you'll see that in that way you will find somebody
i had one boyfriend.. but it only lasted for 2 months.. and i really didn't loved him ( i mean i liked him but real love.. no) so it was pointless..-though i don't regret it-
AkaiYuki:
Ack OK girlies, this is gonna be hard for me to type so be nice if there are typos.. (I played piano and violin for HOURS today and my hands are killing me...) But I was gonna respond to moezy-chan! ^_^ So here goes! First of all, do you *look* for guys, or do you let them look for you? Second, if you do look for them, where do you go to look? (Maybe you're going to the wrong places or something...) And third, do you approach guys you have an interest in, and if so, do you try to be friends or go out togeher in a platonic way before dating? (But as for your personality and way you treat people, girl, you are doing NOTHING wrong! ^_^)
moezychan:
--- Quote from: AkaiYuki on September 08 2005, 02:33 pm ---Ack OK girlies, this is gonna be hard for me to type so be nice if there are typos.. (I played piano and violin for HOURS today and my hands are killing me...) But I was gonna respond to moezy-chan! ^_^ So here goes! First of all, do you *look* for guys, or do you let them look for you? Second, if you do look for them, where do you go to look? (Maybe you're going to the wrong places or something...) And third, do you approach guys you have an interest in, and if so, do you try to be friends or go out togeher in a platonic way before dating? (But as for your personality and way you treat people, girl, you are doing NOTHING wrong! ^_^)
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For one thing, I am way too shy to approach any guys and as far as looking is concerned, I go to college, I go to work, and I come home to more work. I have homework, dishes, laundry which I'm sick of doing, and I clean my room whenever Tornado Teresa (my onee-san) strikes. So I don't have time to do any looking. Maybe that's my problem. I'm an overachiever. Also, I'm not always nice. I can have a temper when I want to.
And I don't date because I never have. Didn't help that my okaa-san homeschooled me for my remaining 3 years of high school and I am shy by nature. I can talk easily on the forums; no pressure, but actual talking face to face was always hard for me. I used to have a speech problem when I was a child. I spoke with a lisp and I did get speech therapy, so I don't talk with it anymore but I'm still self cautious about talking, because when I'm extremely nervous, I lisp again.
Moon:
I've never dated myself either. Well.. expect for one time I had a "date" for a school dance. Only, instead of it just being the two of us, it more a group thing. No double dating or anything like that.
I mean, I had fun and I got to dance with him.. but still, he didn't like me back. For as long as I can remember, at least by the time I hit puberty, I was overweight. Maybe not that much but enough for guys to keep their distance from me ( I was shy and dressed in non-fashionable clothes. I usually hang out with my closest friends and had my mind on homework, and crap like that. ) Plus I was never interested in boys to being with. I have two older brothers and they alone made me uninterested in any other male. I didn't become interested in any guy up until last year. But only in one. One that broke my heart... a waste of my emotions, really.
Anyway.. now that I've lost weight I really doubt I'm going to date dating anytime soon. I'm 18 and starting college in winter. I won't have time to date anyone. Aside from college, I'll probably get a job. Those two things will keep me busy.
I may find a guy that I'll like someday but I'm doubtful any guy would like me.. >>;; I'm so werid and emotional. Heh.
If I had advice to give, Moezy-chan, I'd be more then willing to share it with you. <3
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