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lika-chi:
my best friend.. who NO ONE likes.. so i have something like that right now.. i mean like all my friends hate her and everyone else i know mostly likely hates her too.. i feel bad for her but there are times when i really find her REALLY annoying.. but we all just pretend she's ok and stuff.. and just say how much she bothers us behind her back..
AH that sounds so bad.. O.O uh oh.. well i guess you should tell them that they can't just 'kick' someone out a group because they're different.. i mean like my friends are ALL totally different from me and i'm cool with it.. if they truely find cassie annoying or stara.. then they should just leave.. i mean like it's really stupid to just kick someone out because they're a bit different and act different..
i mean like my friend totally changed into talking about boys, wearing make-up, etc.. but i can't just 'kick' her out because she's like that.. i guess what i'm trying to say is that they have to understand each other.. give each other some space then and it will just go away.. i guess.. HAHA
i really think you shouldn't choose any group of friends.. i mean like if they're going to hate you because you chose the other group then they're not really your friends.. you should stay friends with both groups and the two groups should just separate from each other.. this way you don't have to feel like you only have to choose one group of people.. i feel like that sometimes... and i choose to stick with the wrong people and i got totally betrayed.. *sigh..
Miss Jenni-Maie:
That's pretty much what I'm doing right now....but then one side will come up to me, "You've been hanging out with them too much lately....why are you being such a *****?"
[sigh] This is why I'd prefer being all by myself...at least then I wouldn't have people fighting so much because of me.
I'm a loner at heart
lika-chi:
i really hate that.. *sigh i'm a loner at heart too endoh..
i mean like people won't say that to me.. it's the other way around.. everyone ditches me for their other friends.. *sigh.. and before in like grades 1 to 5.. my two best friends hated each other and would umm 'fight' over me.. like if i hung out with one of them too much the other would be mad at me.. and it was so hard... till this day they still hate each other.. haha.. and they don't really like me hanging with each other.. one of them is the friend that no one likes.. haha
if i were you cblossom.. i would stick with both groups.. and would probably tell them that if they really hate each other then they should just leave each other.. you can go back and forth to each group and if one of them says to you that you shouldn't be hanging with the other group.. or something along that line.. i would immediately stop being their friends.. i mean like they have to understand how hard it is for you because you can't choose between freinds.. trust me on this one..
that's my advice or what i would do if i were you..
cblossom:
Thanks for the addvice I hope it works. I have a feeling that tomorrow is going to be a LONG day at school I just want to get Monday over with tomorrow. There is another reason why they want to kick Cassie out of the group it's because she lies about everything like when she said that she was cutting herself and was showing us her so called "scars" there was nothing there. And then she says don't tell anyone about it but she is the one telling the whole school!! And she blames us that everyone knows. Everyone is saying that she is just saaying that so she can get attention.
VexNet that's mean what the bullies would do just because u would draw and watch anime.
lika-chi:
new problem umm sort of..
i got this friend who's totally in love with this guy that she met from this online game.. and no offense but she totally doesn't have a chance.. i mean like the way she explains it make it seem like he likes her too but i've talk with this guy and he likes someone else.. plus this guy live far away from her..
i can't really just tell her to give it up because that would be really mean.. and it's just annoying how she talks about him most of the time.. i think i know him well too because she talks about him all the time.. O.O man what should i do?? tell her to stop telling me all this stuff.. she's sort of obessed.. O.O i mean like making his picture as her wallpaper!!! O.O oh man.. and talking to him whenever he's online..
i see it was a brother-sister sort of love thing but i'm really scared of telling her so what should i do?!?!? AH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! should i tell her to give it up.. or just leave her be.. or what??!?!?! WAH!!!!!!!!!! i totally hate this love and like thing right now.. it gives me the creeps.. haha.. i'm going to stop on the whole liking and loving someone else thing.. i had enough already and can't stand the people around me like this either.. not that i'm not happy for them just it really creeps me out.. hearing about all these boys makes me.. *faints..
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