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Advice Column: Ask Away~ ^^
Miss Jenni-Maie:
My evil friend is JUST LIKE THAT! Ya know, the evil one that owes me money?
I remember, before I got really angry at her, she would phone me practically everyday wanting to do something saying like, "We havein't done something in sooooooooo long." and I'm just like, "Err....you had a sleepover at my house LAST NIGHT and you left like 3 hours ago."
And whenever I'd go off and hang out with some other friends, she'd totally flip out at me saying I was "ignoring her". Oh please, get over yourself. My interpretation of her definition of "me ignoring her" is "Well, there was something I wanted to buy and you weren't here to pay for it so I'm mad at you."
Pssh, biatch.
And when I was mad at her and I was hanging out with my REAL FRIENDS during the breaks at school she started that stupid "messenger" thingy (ya know where she gets a totally unrelated person into the situation and has them become the messenger for her.) and had my friend Christine demand why I wasn't hanging out with them anymore. I just said I wanted to hang out with different people and it's akward hanging around my Ex. Again, she did the whole "messenger" thing and sent Christine back at me and Christine rolls her eyes and says she's annoyed with this stupid thing but still tells me (with a monotone voice, haha), "Courtenay says that you're being really selfish about it. And, for example, even though she and Becca aren't friends it doesn't mean that she doesn't hang out with her other friends." I felt like screaming at Courtenay, "Well, would you wanna start hanging around the guy that broke into your house and demanded to ...err...well, you know."
Argh! It was so frustrating. I still hang out with my REAL FRIENDS at break but sometimes I go back to the old group and just ignore her completely. I used to ignore Shane (my ex), too. But he's loooooong gone (he moved) so I'm happy.
Ruby Chan:
My friend's like that too - she always wants to go do anything. She'll ask someone else, and if no one's available, she'll ring me up just so she can beg me to go into town with her or something - I'm just a thing she uses when she's bored, and if I say no, then she says I'm a boring person...even if I just went up the day b4!
This may sound a bit weak, but I don't really agree with annoying people if they treat you like that though. It's too much like stooping to their level.
Endoh...perhaps you might need to rethink the ignoring part?
lika-chi....cblossom has some very good advice. Talk to ur friend, and try and make her see it from ur point of view
Miss Jenni-Maie:
By ignoring, I didn't mean the whole "pretending they don't even exist" thing. I just meant that don't show that what's she's doing is making her angry, cause I think she's just prevoking her. And then just politely ask, "What's with the attitude these days? Something I did wrong?"
If that counts as politeĀ :shifty:
Ruby Chan:
Well, at least that's more tactful than what I usually say...
"What's up with you these days? You're really grouchy, you're snapping at everyone, and you treat me like dirt!"
Owch....I deserved her being in a mood with me for that one. But I just couldn't take it anymore, and I sort of exploded!
You know, like when you bottle something up for a long time, then it all comes pouring out? Well, I released a strom of 7 years anger on her, and said some other stuff than what I posted above...now I feel real mean and dirty....
Miss Jenni-Maie:
Yeah, that's why I don't bottle things up anymore.
If someone starts to piss me off, I just go out right and say, "No, be silent. You're annoying me!"
Or I just extend my arm and smack 'em. Either way is effective.
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